April 2008
April 1, 2008
I called Debbie Lee about meeting with Elgin and she said that she had spoken with Elgin and asked him to call me. She tried to invite me to realize that Elgin does not have to talk with me. “I said yes he does, maybe not legally, but morally, ethically and sociologically and in the eyes of God.”
I called Shannon Fife again: “Hello Shannon, this is Allan Lasky Headrick. I am calling you because Misty Roano told me that your report caused her to be concerned. She quoted you, Shannon Fife. So I am led to you by you yourself. Would you please call me? I am wanting to set up an appointment to meet with you. My telephone number is 714 – 8577. Thank you.
I called Misty Roanao and left a message – I let her know that I was not pleased that neithet she nor Shannon Fife had called me back and let her know that the hate andenmity from the Lasky contingency continues unabated.
I left LL with a message asking her about the two hours that I missed ten days ago.
I sent LL the following email:
Heypodey Lorena,
Let me know when the place that you are interested in buying comes through.
Let me know the name of your boy friend.
Let me know what we can do about Hannah interacting with Scottie and Sarah.
Let me know what we can do about arranging for you to get two weeks with the children in Florida.
And so on andonandon.
Most sincerely,
Allan
And then Farfar and Farmor:
Dear Farfar and Farmor,
I HAVE now started to speak in Spanish with my children so please come prepared to speak in German and SPANISH,
Lots of love,
Allan
At 5:15PM I called LL and Sofia answered the phone. She said she was in the car waiting for LL and Hannah to come out of CEP. I walked to CEP and arrived at LL’s car to find Sofia inside. She told me that she did not know why it was taking LL so long. I think it might be because I am trying to get in touch with Elgin at CEP. I will call CEP tomorrow to see what is going on.
When LL came out she said that she wanted to drop the children off at the Highland Coffee House. This makes sense since she has just been talking with CEP people about me (telling them lies) and does not want these same people to see her hand the children over to me. Moreover Hannah was in a belicose mood towards me saying “Daddy, you are not supposed to ne here!” and “get away from the car!” and “Sofia is scared of you.” And so they all got in the car and I followed them the 40m to the Highland Coffee House. I asked LL if she could call me and she said that she could not do so today because she was busy. Hannah again intervened and tried to prevent my making contact with LL. She said “Mommy does not want to have anything to do with you!” From there we walked to the Lemon Grass restaurant where we ate mostly noodles and spring rolls. We played catch as we walked. We read Tin Tin in Spanish as we ate. And then, when we were finished the children went outside and played catch together while I paid the bill.
Then we visited the video store next door and saw that there are lots of German and Spanish Videos.
We stopped by the ice cream parlor on our way to LL’s place. I carried both my children at different times on my shoulders. They love being brought back down because it is such fun to be maneuvered from way up high in my arms back to the ground.
And then I walked back to the Highland Coffee House. I looked for my cell phone without success. I drove back to LL’s. I knocked on the door but no one came. I knocked three times and no one came. I walked around the house and saw Hannah in the Kitchen. I called out to her through the window and asked to her to see if Sofia had my cell phone. She did this but there was no knowledge of my cell phone with my children.
So I went back to my car and then I found it. Gosh! I called the home phone number and Hannah picked up the phone and I told her that I had found my cell phone and that everything was OK. I felt bad for the commotion.
April 2, 2008
I called Debbie Lee of CEP and asked her what developments have taken place.
I called Sarah and left a message on her answering machine:
“Hello Sarah, I have no idea what your life is like since you have completely ex-communicated me from your life. But I have bought a house in Louisville and I am upset that there is a legal order preventing you from interacting with Hannah and it occurred to me that there is no reason why I should not also include you in the advertising that I am doing. I am renting my house and for you and Carlos and Madeleine, I would be glad to lease it to you for a very inexpensive price -- like $200 including utilities, if you want to move here and deal with the court house in terms of Hannah. And yes, Hannah is doing well. Great in fact!”
I called the Bloom School and they acknowledged receipt of the self addressed stamped envelopes I had left under the door yesterday and Mr. Duke and Ms. Schartzer each had of these. They will send me copies of Hannah’s and Sofia’s academic reports from last month.
I called at 7:00PM and at 7:45PM. The second time I called I left a message that ran along the following lines: Hello Rena this is Allan and I am of course calling to speak with my children but since I got the answering machine let me tell you that there is a world of difference between stealing an object and stealing children. Please do not accuse me of stealing anything in front of the children. Thank you.
(Yesterday LL accused me of stealing a ring I was wearing when I was picking up the children.)
April 3, 2008
It was early in the morning and the phone rang. I looked and saw that it was LL’s phone number. I answered it but all I could hear was the sound of the car. I hung up and called again.
This time LL answered. I asked “May I speak with our children?” and she passed the phone back. Of course when the children are in the presence of their mother they are unable to act in a natural manner so Hannah tried to push the phone onto Sofia and Sofia refused to take the phone and I got disconnected. When I called back, Hannah said that Sofia was in one of her moods so to speak and I tried to get her to blow a kiss to Sofia but Hannah refused to do this. So, I asked her to blow LL a kiss and she refused to do this as well. Suddenly I was disconnected.
April 3, 2008
Look at this email that Farfar sent Helmers!
John, upon reviewing your firm's invoice of this morning, I noticed that there were two items which were not properly chargeable to me nor to Allan, namely the time of 2/22 to draft your motion to withdraw and the court appearance of 2/25, in which you presented your motion to the judge and obtained her consent to withdraw.
Would you prefer to send me another invoice or would you rather I paid this one less the disputed amounts, which you will later cancel?
Concerning the substance of your decision to withdraw rather than the fees, I believe that you did the right thing. After the hearing of June of last year, when an Agreed Order had been hammered out, I was under the impression that the dispute between Allan and Lorena had been resolved, and that we could look forward to a year or more of peaceful co-existence. To my disappointment, both parties kept on fighting, Allan in an attempt to hold Lorena in contempt for not allowing him to have his children at all scheduled parenting times, and Lorena by attempting to have Allan imprisoned for non-payment of child support and by coming up with new sexual abuse allegations. Mounting legal fees were consuming funds which could have been used for the benefit of the children. My refusal to pay for legal services which Allan brought upon himself was an attempt to cool the legal battle. It was evidently not enough, as your latest invoice attests. Your decision to withdraw was another step in the same direction.
On the other hand, I also appreciate your informal advice to Allan, given after your resignation, on how to handle the deposition. When you feel that he needs guidance, you should feel free to give it to him (and to send me the corresponding invoice), but you should avoid letting him abuse of your kindness. If he goes too far in asking for advice, you should tell him that he is now his own lawyer and should stand on his own two feet.
Regards,
William C. Headrick
I responded to Farfar as follows:
Dear Farfar,
You wrote to John Helmers: “Concerning the substance of your decision to withdraw rather than the fees, I believe that you did the right thing.” Please stop undermining me. It is extremely wrong of you.
And you wrote: “After an Agreed Order had been hammered out, I was under the impression that the dispute between Allan and Lorena had been resolved…” have you checked out of reality?
Etc…
Most sincerely and with a great deal of love,
Allan
I sent LL the following message:
Dear Lorena,
How are you doing? I have just finished painting a bunch of stripes in the living room of my house and it looks like a circus. The image of the market square in the kitchen is slowly evolving. It's funny, it evolves sometimes in the most imperceptible ways. I will just add a color here or there to get rid of the paint from the brush after working with it in the living room... and I like it.
I hope to see you soon because it is 5:20 PM and I am at the Highland Coffee House. I guess I will call you,
Sincerely,
Allan
A minute later LL actually called me and told me that she was just then leaving work and that she would be bringing the children to me in another ten minutes.
Ok, so I was finally with my children half an hour late. I explained that we needed to clean the house for Farfar and Farmor. They decided that cleaning the house was going to be their homework. Hannah and Sofia painted the floor and cooked tortillas and burritos for dinner. Hannah was the main cook today.
There were two incidents of importance today:
1. Hannah asked me if I had been to Florida. I told her that I had and that I love Florida. Hannah said that she wants me to go with the Lasky Family. I told her that last year I was in jail when she went to Florida with LL and Grammy. I explained that this was a trick.
2. I told Hannah that if she ever wanted to look a the book that Sarah gave her, to let me know. She said that she does not want to talk about it because it just makes her cry. I waited a couple of minutes and then I told Hannah that it makes me cry too.
Dear Allan,
We are pleased to notify you about a newly published posting. Please visit our site again to review Vacancy #0033-2008 - HIGH SCHOOL TEACHER - SCIENCE at JOHN HARDIN HIGH SCHOOL (013).
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Report cards from Bloom Elementary school on these dates
April 16
May 30,
April 4, 2008
Farmor and Farfar arrived. I first took them to my house and then to pick up Hannah and Sofia. LL was half an hour late.
LL did enter to speak with Farmor which I thought was funny. So good, Farmor spoke with LL. I was my usual self. I asked LL about her boy friend and about the property she is buying and she denied interest in either topic.
We drove to the Old Bridge Inn and there Farmor presented the children with a collection of presents, some of which include clothes. They got dressed for dinner and then we went to a restaurant on the river. When we returned to the hotel, Hannah showed her singing abilities when presented with a cat book of songs. There was CD with the book and Hannah sang along. I noticed also that Hannah has a sense for rhythm and loves syncopation.
Things went very well, Sofia and I were busy and Hannah woke up saying that and then we did a little crocheting in her bed room and then I explained to Sofia that she needed to get up and lock the door her eyes were glittering.
April 5, 2008
I appeared at the hotel just before the children had woken up. We went to the Falls of the Ohio State Park, collected rocks and things like that and watched the movie, visited the museum… and then Farfara nd I walked with the kids along the path – the water level was too lhigh for us to complete the loop.
And then we went to lunch. Sofia, Hannah and I walked back from the restaurant on the river side. Then the children wanted to have some down time it seemed and they opted to watch the Disney Channel on TV. Farfar and I went to Sears and purchased a few things including a camera.
And when we came back, I joined my children a little while watching TV but we eventually managed to lure them away from the room (It was much harder to lure Sofia) s and on route to the park… Sofia threw an tantrum: decided that she wlould not follow us since she had lost her pink quarz rocks in a bottle that Farmor had bought for her yesterday at the Ohiop State Park…. OK, so I escorted Farfara nd Hannah to the park and when I got back to the Bed and Breakfast, I saw Farmor taking Sofia in the car. I joined them and we went to get ice cream…. Oh that was nice and then we returned to Farfar and Hannah.
I never knew if Farfar and Hannah were jealous that we had gotten ice cream? They certainly did not seem to care. But Sofia joined us and the play was excellent.
Oh Farfar and I modeled how to play Frisbee to the girls. Hannah had tried throwing the Frisbee while Sofia and I were with Farmor getting ice cream…
And then it was dinner time. We wondered what would be a good place to eat dinner and finally I decided to take us all to the Bass Pro Shop where there is a restaurant on the top floor. This was also a hit.
When we finally came back to the bed and breakfast it was very late. I remeinded the children to call their mother in the car.
Oh there was an interesting moment in the car. Hannah had asked me “what is wrong with Farmor?” when she was being fairly impossible to be with because we could not find a restaurant that would suit her and I said “she is picky.”
But there was something else… what was that? Sofia was on the phone with LL…. Hannah asked me about ???? Gosh I can not remember..
Anyways, the children watched Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and so they must have gone to bed super duper late.
April 6, 2008
Alright, got there before anyone had woken up. Farmor wanted the children to bathe before breakfast so it happened that way. The children are trying hard to keep their room clean. I saw Hannah make the bed and so on.
And then we had the whole rigmarole of convincing Sofia to go with us horse back riding.
But in the end we did it.
But we had to come back to the hotel because we could not find my insulin.
Oh dear.
And so then we finally hit the road. It was a tough psychological battle with time to get there but we did and when we got there we ate at a nice restaurant (Farfar said he liked it) and then the horse back riding experience was really good. Sofia’s horse was much more wild than Hannah;’s and Sofia on several occasions had to wrrrestle with keeping it along the path and from eating grasses. But she did a very good job.
And then the children went along on the ski lift – sledding. Farfar and I tried to catch up with them but it was not possible, Ok. We took the ski lift.
And then Hannah went back to the trampoline and Sofia took to the rick climbing. Hannah wanted to use up the last ticket but I am afraid that it was Sofia’s so I arranged for Hannah to give it to Sofia. Farfar complimented Hannah for being so kind. And then Sofia got all the way to the top of the wall and rang the bell. WOW!
Hannah was jealous and made up stories like that she had already gone up to the top and rang the bell while we were on the ski lift.
“I believe that you were up there as much as I believe in Santa Clause.”
And then we ate ice cream and drive back.
And Farmor was in a slightly funny mood and blamed me and Farfar for forcing the children to do what we wanted to do : go horse back riding.
Then we went to dinner at the Asian Buffet.
We went to Wallgreens to buy chap stick for Farmor. Farfar bought some markers for Sofia and Hanah.
Hannah said “Bitte Farfar,” and Farfars melted (sort of) and said “Ja Hannah mein Kind.”
And then we azrgued in the car. I had provided the children with paer for them to try out their markes in the car and Farmor had said that the children were not to draw in the car and I wanted to know why and was told that it was because she had said so and so you can imagine where that went.
Detrimental to all of us.
And then we came back to the bed and breakfast, Farfar had nothing to do with anyone any more – he read his book and Farmor tried to stay with the children a bit but was bored by the story of Spiderman and then stormed out of the room. Again, the kids did not know what to make of her but they decided that it had nothing to so with them, that it was a psychological problem that Farmor had and that was that. I put them to bed and kissed them.
April 7, 2008
When I got to the Hotel, at about 8:00AM, Hannah and Sofia were already awake and they were watching Spiderman. I joined them for a little while but was soon able to convince them to put their clothes on for breakfast. I think they like breakfasts at the bed and breakfast. Then I went down stars
Funny that, then Farfar knocked on their door and asked them to get ready for breakfast. That is positive reinforcement. I was at that point down stairs with this machine.
“My goodness, what another beautiful day,” Linda exclaims. And Yes, the sun is shining splendidly. What are we going to do this morning?
“Do you need help?” I ask Linda.
“Maybe in an insane asylum?”
“Oh, I can only help you actualize your deepest and prettiest tinsaniies,” I tell her. It is good.
Farfar comes down with a book.
“Man, he is lucky that he but only when we are together alone. They do not like it in public. At least Sofia does not. More on this later.
reads!” I need t do that too.
But I want to add that my children have taken a fancy to the idea that I am different. They understand this and in fact love it
And so it was that we went for a walk to the place where they make keys. A good idea. I was all for it. The children experienced a hardware store. This is good for them. They did not care for it but still.
Then we walked back to the hotel and I went to work.
When I came back from work I found them in the café. Sofia was throwing a a kind of temper tantrum and Hannah was cashing in on the Karma. I sat with Hannah for a little and then went and joined Sofia. It took me a little time to convince her to return to the table with us but eventually I was able to do that.
And then we decided to go to the speed art museum. It was closed because today is Monday.
So we went to Frankfort avenue. which was also mostly closed. But it was not a traumatizing situation for the children. They enjoyed walking along the rail road tracks and collecting rocks.
And then we came to my house. It was a perfectly crazy experience. But there were some good things that happened:
(1) Hannah played Frisbee with Farfar.
(2) Hannah rode on the moped. (on the gas tank)
(3) Hannah rode on the motorcycle in the side car.
(4) Sofia watched Farmor cook rice.
(5) Farfar rode the moped and the motorcycle and side car.
(6)
By the way, this week should be when I mark my seniority at the UPS. That means that in a month I will have health insurance for my children and me.
April 8, 2008
I arrived again just as the children were waking up. They came down to breakfast and again that was a real good experience. I took my children for a walk to the Thornton’s gas station and we bought sour things and then it was time for me to got to work. Work took a long time. I left at 10:15AM and was not back until 3:30PM.
And when I came back, I found Farfar and Farmor in their room and Sofia and Hannah in their room. Now it as a trick to convince Sofia to get out of her doldrums. She locked herself in her room and I patiently tried to coax her out but in the end, when I discovered that Hannah had the key I was able to get in.
Then it still took a couple of hours for us to get out of there. And with this psycho-what-have-you we were not able to go to the Speed Art Museum. Nobody complained to Sofia about this, we just accepted that she had destroyed that hope.
And then Sofia, Hannah and I went to the gas station to try call LL, but LL did not pick up the phone.
Hannah invited me to watch Thunder over Louisville from her house and this disturbed Sofia a great deal. She said to Hannah “Mommy will hate you,” “Mommy will throw a fit if she hears that you did that,” and so on.
We had dinner at the Bristol and dropped off the children with LL. That was a good moment. Farfar spoke with LL for a good long time and just kept her going and recounted some of the stories of the last couple of days and I played with Hannah and Sofia.
Well, my dear children, the USA is in an economic recession and at war without provocation, massive and growing federal deficit. The USA has been at war for as long as LL has been hell to my children and me. And what does that mean? It means literally that for the impoverished of America, the future of the children is dependent on creative parents. My children do not have any knowledge of social or political concerns. I believe that LL no longer listens to NPR or the BBC. At least I doubt that LL listens to these programs in the presence of the children. Certainly Nancy never listened to the news when I visited.
And so my children did not know of the three presidential candidates except that Rebecca likes Obama.
Email for LL:
Dear Lorena,
I am sending you this email to let you know that unless you agree to having me spend two hours with Sofia and Hannah over Spring Break that I will be taking you to court. I intend to ask for custody of the children as well because, of course, I should always have had custody of our children. . Also, please pick up your phone.
Sincerely,
Allan
Dear Farfar and Farmor,
I understand, after overhearing Farfar speaking with Lorena, that Farfar was not pleased with some of the things that transpired over spring break with Sofia and Hannah – although he did add that it was in total average more good than bad.
I think I have very little control over my children. I will loose control over them completely as they become teenagers. The ages between 4 and 9 are VERY important and I have lost access to my children during this time. But you know all that. However, there are some consequences. One of these is that BOTH my children are psychologically screwed – in different ways and to different extents. The cure? More interactions with them wherein which you manifest several traits: Love, understanding, empathy, chronic emotional support of their good natures, guidance here and there, and moral authority. Authority is not just something that you get for being older, but rather something that you get for acting in assertive and correct manner: In our case it means being sweet to Lorena in the presence of the children, telling the children that Lorena is always welcome, calling Lorena and Nancy in the presence of the children as much as possible, being willing to take the children to Lorena at all times, emailing and calling the children and so on. Farfar, I am not jealous of Lorena having a boy friend. She is a cold blood-psychopath-hell bitch. But the most powerful tool that can be used against such a shit is to be pretty and I hope she gets herself a boy friend because it stabilizes her pathological nature. Farfar, you are very able to be pretty and I see you doing that often. Just every now and then you say things that are shocking, like for example to suggest that I am wanting to reconcile with Lorena. My niceness with Lorena is only when the children are in the vicinity. Otherwise I am honest with her: she is a criminal and so is her mother. Farmor, I have no interest in irking Lorena, I am nice about her in the presence of my children because it is the right way to be – I have no choice anyway.
So, even though it may not have been always a happy spring break for you, it was a very good time for the children and very important as well. Thank you very much. I also had a good time – really good. I was able to play with my children like I have never been able to do so before.
Lots of love,
Allan
P.S. You brought good weather too! And you are taking it with you because it is raining now.
Dear Lionsharecology,
I just spent spring break with my children! My parents, whom we call Farmor and Farfar (those are Sweedish words) brought presents, some of which include clothes and they loved these. We went to the Falls of the Ohio State Park, collected rocks and things like that and watched the movie, visited the museum… and then Farfar and I walked with the kids along the path – the river is almost at a flood level!
Anyways, the children experienced a vacation type freedom that warranted them watching Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and so they must have gone to bed super duper late. On some nights.
The horse back riding experience was really good. Sofia’s horse was much more wild than Hannah;’s and Sofia on several occasions had to wrestle with keeping it along the path and from eating grasses. But she did a very good job.
And then the children went along on the ski lift – sledding. Farfar and I tried to catch up with them but it was not possible, Ok. We took the ski lift.
And then Hannah went back to the trampoline and Sofia took to the rick climbing. Hannah wanted to use up the last ticket but I am afraid that it was Sofia’s so I arranged for Hannah to give it to Sofia. Farfar complimented Hannah for being so kind. And then Sofia got all the way to the top of the wall and rang the bell. WOW!
We ate ice cream on the way back.
I put my children to bed and kissed them.
The children enjoyed walking along the rail road tracks and collecting rocks.
We came to my new house. It was a perfectly crazy experience: Hannah played Frisbee with Farfar. Hannah rode on the moped. (on the gas tank) Hannah rode on the motorcycle in the side car. Sofia watched Farmor cook rice. Farfar rode the moped and the motorcycle and side car. Yeah, my new house is fun.
We had our last dinner at the Bristol on Bardstown road. Then we took the children to their mother, LL: Farfar spoke with LL for a good long time and just kept her going and recounted some of the stories of the last couple of days and I played with Hannah and Sofia.
The USA is in an economic recession and at war without provocation, massive and growing federal deficit. The USA has been at war for as long as LL has been hell to my children and me. And what does that mean? It means literally that for the impoverished of America, the future of the children is dependent on creative parents.
What is going on with you?
Your brother Allan.
Here is an update on telephone interactions with my children.
I called this morning while I was still with Farfar and Farmor but no one picked up the phone. Then as I drove to the Highlands I drove past the place of LL and saw that everybody was there so there had been no reason for not being able to speak with the children -- at least it was very improbable. So I drove to the Sprint Telephone Store and called my children again but there was no answer. I did not get a telephone because I was told that I would be able to get a better telephone if I wait until the end of the month (at that point I will have been a customer for 24 months!) Do you remember that 24 months ago I was working at the Kroger Supermarket in Indianna?
And that was a good thing because I was standing
And then when talking to Rob Kearn in front of my car we heard the phone ring! I found my cell phone, in my engine compartment of my car and called my kids again to no avail.
When I returned home at 7:00PM I tried calling my children again. I got no response on the ‘linea baja’, but I got Sofia on the cell phone. She told me that she had been to the new restaurant that has games like ‘Gatti Land’ and a ‘Globo Loco.’ She had been there with Hannah, and her cousins (Joey, Leah and Ana) and I believe LL and Rebecca.
I asked her to ask Hannah to call me when we got cut off – we got cut off when they arrived at Rebecca’s place. “I love you Sofia” I said “I love you too,” she said.
Ok, so I found two things in my mail box. One of them is a copy of the document that John Helmers is no longer my lawyer. I would like to visit him again soon to see what he would require to become my lawyer again.
And then I got an order from the Judge. It states that I am the petitioner and LL is the responder. This is not the case. Ok Ok. . I must fix this in time. The Judge thinks that I disparage LL in front of the children. The Judge issues some harsh words about non-compliance with the orders which are meaningless since there is no way to check on anything that LL (or I) do. The court is inclined to think that a parenting coordinator or joint counselor is a good idea. I hope she does this. The letter states that on April 4rth, 2008, the depositions had still not been filed. Anyways, the allegations of me implementing bad talk and the allegations of LL preventing me from seeing my children were both discredited for lack of concrete evidence.
April 10, 2008: Here is my first draft:
Dear Judge Patricia Walker Fitzgerald,
Thank you for the Order NO. 06-CI-501203, LASKY VRS. LASKY-HEADRICK. It states that “The court is inclined to think that a joint counselor or a parenting coordinator is appropriate…. However the parties have nearly completed depositions… and the Court will reserve ruling on Mr. Lasky’s request until all such testimony has been submitted.” Regarding this issue: The court reporter is Wendy McLaughlin
101 North Seventh Street
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
(502) 561-3467
And her court transcripts of all the deposition have been available since March 18, 2008. It appears that the respondent is dragging their feet in submitting the transcripts of the depositions. I am asking for a hearing so that a deadline by which time the depositions must have been filed or alternativly , that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such testimony.
Also, Again and very soon after the last hearing, Allan R. Headrick was not able to be with his children for a two hours. Allan has extrinsic evidence and would like to present this to the court.
Sincerely,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
But in the end this is what I sent Lorena and her lawyer, Mason:
Dear Lorena and Mason,
I will be sending something similar to this to the court by this week unless you respond in an appropriate manner.
Dear Judge Patricia Walker Fitzgerald,
Thank you for the Order NO. 06-CI-501203, LASKY VRS. LASKY-HEADRICK.
All the deposition have been available since March 18, 2008. It appears that the respondent is dragging their feet in submitting the transcripts of the depositions. I am asking for a hearing so that a deadline by which time the depositions must have been filed or alternatively , that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such testimony.
Also, Again and very soon after the last hearing, I, Allan R. Lasky-Headrick, was not able to be with his Sofia and Hannah for a two hours. There is extrinsic evidence.
Sincerely,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
I got an email from LL:
Allan,
This is a reminder that you need to take Sofia to girl Scouts this Sunday. .Lorena.
I responded:
Dear Lorena,
Yes, I got that also from Kelly Walace and am OK with doing so. Have you sewn the patches on her band or would you like for me to do so?
Sincerely,
Allan
And so, unless LL changes her mind, I will see my children on Sunday, in four days.
Allan,
You can pay for copies of the seposition yourself and submit them. It is equally your fault so get in the game.
Also, if you paid back child support when you sold your house, then you would be looking very favorable in the Court's eyes. As it is, it is obvious you have no intention to take Court orders seriously so a motion such as you just wrote makes you seem at best a fool and at worst a hypocrite.
Lorena.
And I respond:
Dear Lorena,
I have already paid for the persons I have wanted deposed. They are my responsibility and the other people, like Kim Dial and Ginger Crumbo are people who have not been worth anything to Sofia and Hannah. However, you asked for them to be deposed. I did not ask for them to be deposed. Consequently they are not in any sense my fault. In a more general sense, none of what has been going on in the court is my fault which means also that the so called back child support does not exist. It is a fiction of your imagination.
Sincerely, Allan
But I also got another email in response to my email where I asked of LL to “let you know that unless you agree to having me spend two hours with Sofia and Hannah over Spring Break that I will be taking you to court. …”and she responds as follows:
What kind of ridiculous email is this?!
First, the only two-hour peeriod you can say you were short on visitation hours is the SUnday in March that you brought the children home two hours early. Instead of bringing them at 7:00, you brought them around 5:10pm. Quote you, "Hannah was unsustainable." Hannah was acting up & cryign incessantly to come home. You said you "gave in" and brought her home. That was your choice. You did not say, "Can you give me two hours another time if I bring her home." You simply called & asked if I was home & if you could bring the girls home. AFTER you dropped them off, you said on the front porch, "can I make up this time?" I said, "yea, probably," That is not a promise.
You, Allan, have not mentioned this to me ONCE since then. You did not say, "can we try to m ake up those two hours?" The first time you mention this is with this threatening email, proving once again that (a) you do not want to "work things out" like you whiningly prentend in Court, and (b) you are using the Courts as a way to threaten me (not a proper use iof the Court), and finally (c) you do not have the best interest of the children in your mind.
How in your mind does sending me a threatening email during my vacation help the children?
You brought the children hom at 7:35pm on Tuesday. That was 30 minutes late.
You brought the children home at 7:40pm on Tuesday April 1. That was 30+ minutes late.
Therefore, you have already made up one of the two hours. You may keep the children an extra hour this Sunday. You can bring them home at 8:00pm. So, then this little two hour issue will be taken care of.
Lorena
Well, LL has basically called me “ridiculous,” “ a fool and at worst a hypocrite.” She calls my issue a “little two hour issue.” She is as she is.
Dear Lorena,
It is incredible to read what you write. It reminds me of Jean Paul Sartre’s fiction where surreal social forces destroy a person and that person is under siege with the notion that reality is a kind of mad theater. You are to me as you were in Paraguay. Our lack of coherence shows that we need a person to make sense of the quagmire injected into the lives of Sofia and Hannah: Frequent parenting-counseling sessions and the like. Would you please agree to do this with me?
But in any case, I have asked you to make up the two promised hours in emails (on April 1 and 8) and in person (on March 22, 27 as well as April 1 and 4rth) and so I am now glad to get a first response from you about this and this is the sixth time (not the first) that I ask you.
And also please remember that I have nearly never received Sofia and Hannah at the court agreed time which is 5PM. This is because you work until 5:00PM. I am with them for the time interval agreed in court.
You promised our children and me a two hour make up, in a WRITTEN document in March 2008. Would you mind allowing the children to be with me for two hours on Monday, after school instead of an extra hour on Sunday? As always, you are welcome to share this time with us.
Sincerely,
Allan.
7:00PM I was able to speak with both of my children. This has not happened in a very long time and has been extremely infrequent in years. With Hannah I was playful because she was playful. She pretended to be Joe (I think that is the name of LL’s boy friend) but then changed it to Jareld (?) and I said things like “I am very pleased to speak with you sir and my name is Allan,” and “Let’s meet for a cup of tea at the Highland coffee house, do you know where that is?” And then I spoke with Sofia who told me that she had cleaned up her room while Grammy baby sat them and then gone to Wall*Mart. They had purchased items for the “Thunder over Louisville party” that LL is hosting at her place.
LL refused to speak with me. I asked her “how are you?” and she passed the phone on to one of the children.
April 11, 2008
I called the KGB and left the following message: “Hello, this is Allan Lasky-Headrick and I am trying to get in touch with David Weathersby, Kim Dial and Dr. Ginger Crumbo certainly at least about statements that were made during the depositions that took place in March regarding allegations you have made that say that I called and parked my car or have been in your parking lot. I am sure that you approve and applaud me advocating that people speak truthfully and denounce liars. Would all of you please contact me? My telephone number is 714 – 8577 Thank you.”
I called Misty Rowan and left the following message: “Hello Misty, this is Allan Lasky-Headrick and before I continue in my plight to save my children I wanted to speak with you. You promised me when we met that you would call me back. Please do so. I want to get a copy of your report. My telephone number is 714 -8577. Thank you.
I called John Helmers, my lost lawyer, to ask for his help. He said that I should write Judge Patricia Walker Fitzgerald a letter that goes as follows:
To the Honorable Patricia Walker-Fitzgerald
Judge, Jefferson Circuit Court
Family Court. Division Three (3)
Re: Lasky-Headrick v. Lasky
Case No. 06-CI-501302
Request for a date for a hearing
Dear Judge Patricia Walker-Fitzgerald:
This Honorable Court has reserved ruling on my request for a ruling on whether I may have possession of my children overnight during the extended parenting time given in the Agreed Order entered into by the parties at the conclusion of the hearing of June 12, 2007. The Court's ruling was reserved until the depostions of all witnesses had been submitted.
Regarding this issue: The court reporter is Wendy McLaughlin, 101 North Seventh Street, Louisville, Kentucky 40202 (502) 561-3467 Her transcripts of all the deposition have been available since March 18, 2008. In light of this situation, I respectfully request that a date be set for a hearing at which I will submit a motion requesting a deadline for the filing of such depositions or alternatively , that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such depositions.
Respectfully submitted,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
I stopped by the court house to write the following a letter to Judge Patricia Walker Fitzgerald. However, the clerk’s office was closed. I found out though, that the clerk’s office telephone number is (502) 595-3025. Here is the letter I had intended to submit.
Dear Judge Walker-Fitzgerald,
Thank you for the Order NO. 06-CI-501203, LASKY VRS. LASKY-HEADRICK.
All the deposition have been available since March 18, 2008. The respondent does not want to submit the transcripts of the depositions. I am asking that the court please rule on a basis of the testimony it already has.
With deepest respect,
Allan Robert Headrick
I regret to say that today I was not able to speak with my children. I called, as usual at 7:00PM but also around 5PM because I drove by LL’s house and saw that the car was there and the front door was open, and yet when I called no one answered the phone.
April 12, 2008
9:20AM I called and the phone was simply hung up? I called again. LL picked up the phone. It was a complicated connection. Finally LL admitted that the phone was not working and said that the children would call me back on the cell phone. She also said that we would be able to speak tomorrow after 6:00PM. The children were also at this time just waking up.
10:20AM or thereabouts I called again – to LL’s cell phon and this time I got to speak with Sofia and Hannah. We spoke well and joked and it was funny. We considered options for tomorrow: The zoo, the park, the science museum, the speed art museum and so on.
April 13, 2008
Oh what a day! It was a good day for the children even though they did not think so: they learned a lot of German and Science. Sofia did a homework on light, sound, heat, electricity and magnetism. We went to the Spanish church service and that was cool too (even though they hated it.) Yes, all in all it was a great day – even the Girl Scouts was great. Oh, and I actually took some videos and pictures of today.
Let me recount the day. I got the children late. The children knew that they would be with me until 8:00PM because LL had told them – even though LL had not read my email she told them this? I mean, she just went ahead and decided that they can know something about my day that she untilaterally decided. That’s LL for you.
Sofia was not in a good mood when I got her. LL put the blame .on me in front of the children. She accused me of being stupid (about parking the car at the gas station so the children have to walk there) and ‘incompetent,’ (about doing homework with Sofia. LL said “You did zero homework while she was with you and your family over spring break.” I asked LL to please email me these accusations rather than tell me in front of the children.
Sofia became happy within minutes of getting away from LL’s place.
Hannah told me that she had been advised by Mark Duke that I need to respect her personal space. I thought that was pretty strange so I will call Mark Duke, her teacher to conference with him.
We had breakfast at Day’s café and then went ot Wall*Mart, bought things that Sofia needed for her school.
Sofia said that she needed medicine so I called LL to fin out what that was but LL did not pick up the phone and she did not call back until we were gone from the store.
We went to the ice cream parlour and picked up my bike. The children ate ice creams.
We came to my house and while Hannah watched Tim und Struppi, Sofia worked on her homework with the materials we had bought at Wall*Mart.
Then we visited the neighbor, Jody, who has a collection of baby cats. Hannah loved this.
Then we went to Girl Scouts. I allowed Hannah to reamin with the girl scouts the entire time for the first time today.
Then we came back to my place and watched cPippi Langstrumpf, petted cats again, did art, worked some more on the homework….
And then we went to the Spanish church service in the catholic Iglesia on 4rth street.
LL called to tell me that she had read my email – at about 6:30PM and that she is alright with letting me have the children on Monday… but I was not able to get that message until after leaving the church which was already 7:00PM?
Will that happen? Is she afraid of court?
And then I took them home. I videotaped the last moments with them. It shows what a person LL is to me as well as lots of other stuff.
April 14, 2008
I went to the curt house and filed the motion below:
NO. 06-CI-501203 JEFFERSON CIRCUIT COURT
FAMILY DIVISION THREE (3)
ALLAN ROBERT LASKY-HEADRICK PETITIONER
v. MOTION FOR A HEARING
LORENA MARIE LASKY (FORMERLY LASKY-HEADRICK) RESPODENT
NOTICE
It is hereby noticed that on Monday, April 13, 2008, at 10:00 a.m., in the above courtroom, the undersigned will make the following Motion and tender the attached Order
MOTION
Petitioner, Allan Robert Lasky-Headrick, moves this Court to hold Respondent In non-compliance with the court for not submitting the transcripts of the depositions.
In support of this motion, Petitioner states two things:
(1) That Respondent has sent an email indicating that she is disinclined from submitting the depositions. And,
(2) The transcripts of the depositions have been available since March 18, 2008.
This Honorable Court has reserved ruling on Petitioner’s request for possession of his children overnight during the extended parenting time given in the Agreed Order entered into by the parties at the conclusion of the hearing of June 12, 2007. The Court's ruling was reserved until the depositions of all witnesses had been submitted.
Regarding this issue: The court reporter is Wendy McLaughlin, 101 North Seventh Street, Louisville, Kentucky 40202 (502) 561-3467. Her transcripts of all the deposition have been available since on or before March 18, 2008. In light of this situation, Petitioner respectfully requests that a date be set for a hearing at which Petitioner will submit a motion requesting a deadline for the filing of such depositions or alternatively that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such depositions.
NO. 06-CI-501203 JEFFERSON CIRCUIT COURT
FAMILY DIVISION THREE (3)
ALLAN ROBERT LASKY-HEADRICK, PETITIONER,
v. ORDER
LORENA MARIE LASKY (FORMERLY LASKY-HEADRICK), RESPONDENT.
Upon Motion of Petitioner, and the Court being otherwise sufficiently advised, IT IS HEREBY ORDERED the that a hearing will be held on the above matter on the ___ day of _____, 2008 at _:_ _ .m., allowing Respondent to show cause, if any, why she should not be held in non-compliance of this Court and requesting a deadline for the filing of such depositions or alternatively , that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such depositions.
Date: _________________, 2007 _____________________________
JUDGE,
JEFFERSON FAMILY COURT
FAMILY DIVISION THREE (3)
cc.
Allan R. Lasky Headrick Mason Trenaman, Esq.
1329 Lillian Ave 600 W. Main Street
Louisville, Ky 40208 Suite 200
Louisville, Ky 40202
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
It is hereby certified that a true and correct copy of the foregoing was served, via email and hand delivered at 8:00AM this April 13, 2008, upon:
Mason Trenaman, Esq.
600 W. Main Street
Suite 200
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
Fax-584-1744
Counsel for Respondent.
And there, at the court house I found out from the Clerk that Helmers had not filed the deposition of Richard Nassr. So I went to Helmers office and got his secretary to promise me that she would call me with a response about this issue. She seemed very stressed out but I was very polite.
Of course, Helmers did not call me today.
I called LL at about 4:00PM and told her that I would be at the Highland Coffee House at 5:15PM and she agreed to let me be with them for an hour and a half today “because I brought them at 7:30PM and so half an hour of the two hour make up has already been used up.”
April 14, 2008: LL had told me that she had sent this email yesterday and we had agreed on the phone – in a kind of relaxed and not too sure way, that if I brought the children right after church that I could have them today, Monday…
Allan:
I am just now reading this email at 6:45pm on SUnday. I did not read my email on Saturday and, as I told you this morning, I was in a workshop all day today until 6pm.
It is agreeable to me to make up the time on MOnday April 14th instead of tonight. I have tried to call you 4 times in the last 15-20 minutes and was hung up on twice. THe last two times it went straight to voice mail & I have left two messages.
Depending upon what time the kids get home tonight, we will renegotiate this make-up time but I am responding while I am logged on.
And so now, here I am at the Highland Coffee house waiting for my children.
There they are: I speak with LL just liong enough to tell her that Hannah believes in God but Sofia does not and she agrees with me.. so she knows and it is probably Nancy Lasky who is doing this? Hum?
And then we walk to the Asian Buffet and from there to LL’s. The children laughed and were happy the whole time. LL would not speak with me when I dropped the children off.
I walked back to the Highland Coffee House and drove my car back to LL’s. There was no ne at her house. I left the legal document in her mail box. I took a ton of pictures of today.
April 15, 2008,
Yes, I do not stand much of a chance of getting along with LL because I have a very hard time being nice to her about what she has done to the children – at least until we have joint custody.
I arrived at the Highland Coffee Shop at 5:15PM and she was already there with the children. Today was to be a good day! I would have the children from 5:15PM to 8:30PM.
Now, this was something that LL did not exactly want. She was working in the L and M building until 8:00PM and wanted me to bring the children at 7:15PM to hang around with her at her desk there – she is doing something to do with foster children (amazing to me since that is the woman who coached my children to lie, but anyway) and the L and M building is the site of Child Protective Services, the institution that catalyzed her hell upon my relationship with the children. I called her and told her that I would not bring the children to the L and M building so she came to my house to pick up the children at 8:30PM. I am, by the way, being quite polite about LL’s behavior on the phone. I will however say that she told me that this would detract form my next visit to which I responded that I will never allow any detractions to take place after four years of her detractions. She also told me that she will call the police and I said “have fun!”
I am guessing she did not call the police. I did not see them at my house or at the park.
But the children had a good time at the park, riding bikes, playing and then with the neighbors and the cats/kittens and then they watched videos of themselves while eating dinner.
LL did speak with Sofia and that resulted in Sofia feeling torn about me not taking her and Hannah to the L and N building, but she put up very little resistance to staying at my house. She sat on my lap and watched the movie.
When LL came, Sofia was more interested in watching the movie (of herself) than she was interested in getting in LL’s car. So, that took a few minutes.
But it is clear that Sofia and Hannah need and love their mother and that their mother is important to them no matter how evil LL may have been to me. This has always been clear to me. The changes that have happened this year include that now the children have opted to prefer no contact between their parents. That is exactly what LL wants.
Oh well, LL has drunken from the life of a sociopath and is now on a path similar to George W. Bush!
LL refused to promise me that she would speak with me on Friday evening. She suggested that Friday evening might be a good time, but refused to promise talking with me because “she can not see that far in the future.”
April 16, 2008
I emailed a copy of the motion to have a hearing that I will present the court on the 28th to Trenaman, LL’s lawyer.
I was not able to speak with my children today.
April 17, 2008
I called an left a message for Mark Duke: I want to set up an appointment to meet him.
I picked up my children at 5:30PM because LL did not deliver them to me until then. I tried to confirm with LL that she would speak with me on Friday (tomorrow) but it was like pulling teeth so I don’t really feel assured that she will call me or pick up the phone when I call. However, she did say that she does not feel that I call her(?) which I think is perfectly insane, so I will start calling her with greater frequency.
I had brought the bikes to Highland Coffee House so we rode on them, first to the mall (where we bought dinner at Subway) and then we rode our bikes to the skateboard rink down town.
We watched the teenagers perform their stunts.
Then we stopped by the Barack Obama campaign headquarters on our way to LL’s.
I then rode my bike back to the Highland Coffee House and put my bike in the trunk, drove the car back to LL’s house in order to pick up the bikes from the children. Oh! I found Hannah practicing on her skateboard in the front of the house. I showed her how to pivot swivel on the skateboard.
LL was angry when she realized that Hannah was with me. She blamed Hannah for being in the front of the house without having told her. I said to LL “She was with me.”
“She still needs to tell me!”
“No, she does not. I am just as much a parent as you.”
Hannah was very loving as I left. She called out “I love you Daddy!” and I waved at her through the sunroof and called out “Ich liebe dich auch.”
April 18, 2008
Today is Zimbabwe’s independence day from England and it’s people have nothing to be happy about. It’s economy, filled with contempt, is subjugating its people inflicting 160% inflation per year. Robert Mugabe, the dictator, raising his clenched fist is continuing to play with his people.
I got a call from Mark Duke, Hannah’s teacher. He is concerned. He said that Hannah’s behavior in class is becoming “destructive.”
She is not obeying classroom regulations, she took a quarter and scratched the walls, she is not doing her class work….
“This is certainly not the first time!” I responded and we set up an appointment for Tuesday at 8:30AM.
By the way, the sub=prime mortgage crisis has crippled, not only the US economy, but that of the entire world.
But anyway, Mark Duke denied ever having told Hannah or influenced her to manifest any psychological distance from me.
On Sunday I need to teach Hannah how to do math. I told Sofia that she should let Hannah know that I will be making sure that she can do her addition! So, yes, I was able to speak with Sofia at 7:00PM. She told me that she was at Grammy’s. Rich was mowing the lawn. Lara was with her five month old baby, Leylanie (not sure about the spelling)…
Sofia and I were cut off not too long after our conversation started. I called again and the phone was not picked up. I told LL that I would be calling her at 9:00PM. I also told her that I would like to speak with Hannah.
She never called me,
I called three times between 9:00PM and 11:30PM but she never picked up the phone.
Pope Benedict is in the USA and he is suggesting that the USA should intervene when there is Genocide in the world.
Jimmy Carter is meeting with Hammas – I reckon Obama likes this. I know Bush hates this: He does not believe in discourse with the enemy (and Hammas is according to Bush a terrorist organization.). I have no idea what Hilary thinks.
The British and the US banks are in severe problems with sub-prime mortgages.
Zimbabwe is still ruled by Robert Mugabe even though he lost the elections.
The group human rights watch has wcalled for an investigation of a reporter who is alleged to have been killed by an Israel tank.
April 19, 2008
On this god-forsaken day, I did not interact with my children and certainly also not with LL. Needless to say, LL nor my children made no attempt to call me. But I knew from my conversation with Sofia yesterday that my children were with Nancy and Lara last night and today.
April 20, 2008
I explained to LL that Hannah needed to do Math before we leave. I explained to her that Hannah had refused to do any Math in front of Archana’s house, that I had asked Sofia to tell her that we would do Math, and that I had not been able to speak with Hannah on the phone today, even though I had called and left a message asking to speak with Hannah.
“Yes, you spoke with Hannah,” LL lies “I passed the phone to Hannah twice!”
That’s Lorena.
LL told me that it was irresponsible for me to do Math with the children since Sofia had not eaten anything. She had a point here, but I decided that it was not sufficient to alter my path.
I explained to the children that Hannah had “won” already in front of Archana’s house and now it was my turn.
Well, it took some time – about half an hour. Sofia and Hannah debated and finally they came to LL’s front porch with pebbles: “We will only do math with the pebbles,” they declared.
“Ok, Sofia, show me using pebbles what 5/4 is. And you Hannah have to tell me which pebbles are pennies, nickels, dimes, quarters…”
But I had a pocket full of change and we played a game that involved Hannah buying my cell phone, my digital camera and so on. She learned how to count coins. It was clear to me that she had never done this before or if she had tried, she had not developed an algorithm hat worked for her. Soon enough, she had a grasp of adding coins.
We walked slowly to my car which was parked at the Thorntons where once again Hannah counted out the money she needed to pay for her smoothie and life was good.
But let me go back and say that LL was ttruly a terrible person at her place. She called me “rude,” “irresponsible” and according to the children she calls me “”weird” and “crazy” when I am not around. And the children were not ready at 9:00AM, they arrived in my area at 9:15AM. LL picked the children up at 7:00PM right on the dot.
Ok, the children and I discussed how we would go to the Speed Art Museum. I wanted to ride the bikes there but they wanted to go in the car. We flipped a coin and they won so we drove to the Speed Museum – only to find that it was closed.
I took them to my house.
Hannah learned a lot of German! In fact, Hannah is right at the edge of beginning to speak German. She spoke more German today, both to me and to herself, than she ever has since arriving in the USA. She watched Pipi Langstrumpf, Tim und Struppi and a Disney movie in German today. In the mean time Sofia cooked pancakes.
“Daddy I am having a little bit extra coming up for you and Hannah OK?”
Sofia is cooking pancakes. She is loving this endeavor and is being creative about it - creating shapes and forms…
Sofia also drew pictures of all nine planets. Then Sofia came and sat on my lap to watch the movies with Hannah. Sofia loves sitting on my lap.
Hannah loves riding motorcycles with me. She gets in front and loves the feeling. She had a bag of flowers that she had collected from the ground in front of my house and she spread these as we rode around. Hannah also loves the park.
I called LL to establish if she or I would be picking up/ delivering the children and LL agreed to pick them up.
When LL came to pick the children up she was on the phone and so I was not able to speak with her.
April 21, 2008
8:19AM LL called me to suggest that I call Mason Trenaman, her lawyer because she does not believe Trenaman has gotten notice of the motion I am presenting the court on the 28th. I told her that I had emailed it to her.
I think LL was confused, thinking that it was set for today (it is Monday.)
Anyway, she gave me Trenaman’s tel. number
(502) 589 – 6190
Hum? I do not care to call her lawyer. I suppose I could, but why? I will probably wait a couple of days and then hand deliver the document to him…
LL said that she is getting the depositions prepared. She said that I should cancel the motion fro this reason. She said that “Trenaman is preparing the motion and will submit it this week.”
She said that she had to pau $800 to purchase the depositions and this is the reason it was taking so long.
“You pay for evil,” I thought and changed topics of conversation.
“Sofia and Hannah say that you are moving out on May 5th?”
“Well, no but I am hoping to close on that day.” She responded.
“Good luck Rena,” said and with that the conversation ended.
LORENA IS A CRIMINAL WHO GOT AWAY FWITH THE CRIME. I am acclimated to the reality that there are many people who commit crimes and do not get caught and that LL is one of them. This is nothing novel.
The problem that my children and I still have is that LL continues to pretend that I am a criminal and after all this time, she has a long history that no one wants to tackle.
I have fun at work at UPS and a great source of my pleasure has to do with having made a friend who, like me, has been denigrated sociologically and most unethically.
There has been a huge shake up in Paraguay’s political realm: Fernando Lugo a Catholic Bishop, not of the Partido Colorado, won the presidency. “Today we can state that small people can also win. This is the Paraguay of my dreams. Hoy más que nunca este Lugo los quiere mucho.”
Finally Paraguay can smile.
Yes, mine is a careful dance, a dance of anger, but I move in my life here in Louisville in a dance of strategy and long term care.
And the dance is not easy.
There is a war going on in Iraq. There was a story on National Public Radio about a child who needed medical treatment in Bagdad, Iraq, and was sent to Kabul, Afghanistan, where again the doctors and hospitals refused to take the patient and so now the child is being shipped to Karachi, Pakistan…
And that story brings tears to my eyes, but that child is surrounded by love. My children and I, an in particular, my relationship with my children is hated. The child from Iraq may die and my children will live. Is a life with hate better than a shorter life with love? Tell me! Well, it depends. Children are versatile. My children may be able to wear off the hate? Or most of it?
I sent LL’s lawyer an email:
Mr. Trenaman esq.,
Your client, Lorena Lasky, called me this morning and told me that you will be submitting the depositions by Friday. If you confirm, then I will remove my latest motion. wherein which I ask for a hearing to put a deadline by which time the depositions are to be handed in or not considered.
Sincerely,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
I was able to speak with Hannah for just a little time. LL picked up the phone and said “did you call Trenaman?”
“No, I emailed him.” I said. Then she put me with Hannah and that lasted barely a couple of seconds. I called back to speak with Sofia but LL did not pick up the phone and so I left a message asking to speak with Sofia.
9:30PM I called LL and she picked up the phone! Wow! Cool! This is the first time in ages that she actually picks up the phone.
I said “Can we talk Rena?”
She said “I guess we can talk for a little bit.”
“How long is a little bit? Is it five minutes?”
“I do not know.”
“Can I have the children over at my house?”
“No.”
“Why not?”
“Because you failed the lie detector test.”
“Well, I swear that the children’s statements do not have an iota of truth.”
“uhum.”
“And so that means that the source of their statements must have come from Kentucky.”
“Allan, if you are going to accuse me, I am going to hang up.”
“I am just speaking the truth, but why is Hannah doing so badly in school?”
“She is not.”
“Yes, she is.”
“No she is not.”
“Well the only two changes that have happened is that she is taking less ADHD medicin and she has been with you.”
“Why don’t you tell me that her meds are being reduced?
“Well, I am sure that you want the information but you take no responsibility for making the payments.”
“If I had custody of the children then they would by fully insured.”
“I am going to hang up.”
Click.
Lorena is a very evil woman. I know that she is evil because the evidence is too great: for example, less than a year ago she tried to coach Hannah to claim that I had sexually abused her. There was another round of allegations – this was again fully the work of a cold blooded conniving woman: my EX-wife.
So how to address her when I next see her tomorrow evening? My usual self would be to smile, laugh and say something like “thank you for speaking with me when I called you last night. That was a very nice gesture and I am deeply happy that you spoke with me. When do you think we can talk again?”
I called the KGB and left a message on their answering machine that went as follows: “Hello, this is Allan Robert Lasky-Headrick. I am the father of Sofia and Hannah. You Kim Dial and Dr. Ginger Crumbo, have severely thwarted my reputation in the world without my being eligible. That is to say that everything you have spoken to the judges in Kentucky and Texas is not worth the nitrogen you exhaled or inhaled. And now you are not speaking to me – or at least you have not for a while. I am guessing that you are scared because of the heinous socio-pathological influence that you have both endorsed and supported in the lives of my children? So, if that is not the case or what ever reason you may have for not calling me before, please call me now. My telephone number is (502) 714 – 8577. Thank you.
April 22, 2008
I met Mark Duke and the EEC teacher – I have forgotten her name. I explained that Hannah had acted in threatening manners to herself and to her classmates and teachers at the last school. I explained that she was sent to the Western Day Care Training Center. Hannah has been acting out of sorts according to both the teachers I spoke with. She has either pretend punched a kid in the face or actually done so. She has scratched the walls with a quarter. She says things that make no sense and reacts in manners that are not expected. Like she will say something that “comes from left field.”
I explained to the teachers that Hannah had been used as a pawn in LL’s ploy to get rid of me – that I had been accused of sexually abusing Hannah and that this was, of course, completely false.
I told Mark Duke that any indication that he could give Hannah that provides her with an understanding that he can be trusted, is honest, fair and square is good for Hannah.
I told the teachers that Hannah lies.
As I rode my motorcycle back home I wondered to myself “am I still the victim?” The answer, as best I can resolve is that I have never really allowed myself to experience the sensation of victimhood, rather I felt that my children were/are the victims. AND THEY ARE STILL! All you have to do is observe the behavior of the Lasky’s in our presence. But yes, I have been and continue to be the object of the label “pedophile.” And so the straight answer to the question is “yes, I am still a victim,” but I do not feel it because I am much too global to fall for such local crap.
An email from the Girl scouts troop leader:
On Saturday April 26 is the Sign of the Sun Workshop (Junior's Only), we will meet at Deer Park at 8:30 am, please do not be late.
The girls that are registered are: Katherine, Katie, Alexis, Emma, Zoe, Sofia, and Jasmine
Please bring 1 - 10 pairs of socks for donation (See below for Service Project #1)
BethAnn and myself will get the girls at the workshop and Carolyn will meet us at 1 pm, I will be leaving at 1 pm so BethAnn and Carolyn will get the girls back to Deer Park after the workshop.
_____________________________________________________________________________
On Sunday April 27 3-4:30 pm is our last meeting of the troop year.
Brownie's are you still bringing your supplies to finish the try-it, Number and Shapes, if I need to pick up any supplies please let me know.
Zoe -- bring snack enough for 16 girls
We will also have a year end meeting/ceremony in May, make sure to keep an eye on your email for date and time.
Thanks,
Kelly
________________________________________
Hello!
Thank you for registering for Troop 1957's Sign of the Sun Workshop. This email confirms that I have received your registration and we are looking forward to Saturday's workshop! I need to give you some details for the day. Please pass this information on to the girls and parents in your troop (especially #2!).
1) Basic information:
- Please be sure you meet Safety-Wise requirements for adults. For Juniors, that means 2 adults for 2 - 16 girls.
- Do not bring Tag-alongs (with the exception of nursing mothers). We have over 50 girls attending plus adults. We did not count on Tag-alongs attending, and will not have room or accomodations for them.
- Troops will remain together. We have divided attendees into 4 groups. The workshop leaders will rotate for 4 sessions while girls remain seated in their groups.
2) Service project #1: One of our activities is to do a service project for a church or community organization. Since the church is allowing us to use the space, we have decided to work with them on a service project. Please have each girl bring a packet of new socks. They can bring 1 pair to 10 pairs - whatever they think they can bring. The socks can be for men, women, girls or boys. The Salem United Church of Christ will distribute them to homeless and needy people. This church is very active in the community.
3) Service project #2: As stated on the registration form, we will be doing a service project for U.S. Soldiers overseas. We will be folding small flags for soldiers to put in their pockets and take with them out in the field. These are called "pocket flags." We will provide everything needed for this project. We think this will be a great project with lasting effects for the men and women fighting for us overseas. It's one way to remind them that we support and appreciate what they are doing - regardless of anyone's political views.
4) Check-in: Check-in will begin at 9:30 AM. We will serve a breakfast of doughnuts, fruit, juice, and milk until 10:00. We will have coffee for the adults. Please don't be late - it will throw everything off and we won't be able to give you and your girls the proper instructions and attention you need to get started. You may arrive 10 - 15 minutes early to speed the check in process, if you want. Upon arrival, girls will be escorted to their workshop room. Breakfast will be eaten in the workshop rooms.
5) Lunch: Lunch will be at 11:55. We will be serving pizza, salad, cookies, and lemonade. We will have cheese and pepperoni pizzas. Adults are welcome to join us for lunch. There is no charge for Safety-wise adults from each troop. If additional adults would like to join us for lunch, the cost is $5 per adult.
6) Snack: We will provide a snack at about 1:50. Snack will consist of popcorn and lemonade.
7) Award ceremony: After girls have completed all the activities, we will do a small award ceremony to present them with their Sign of the Star patches. If we have time, the workshop leaders will lead the girls in a few closing songs.
8) Church address: The event is at the Salem United Church of Christ at 3408 Newburg Road in Louisville. Get on 264 - Waterson Parkway. Take the Newburg Road exit South (right if you're going East, left if you're going West). The church is on the right hand side - it's easy to see. Park in the back and enter the double glass doors.
9) One more thing - This day is going to be packed with activities, but will be a lot of fun! Girls will enjoy themselves more if they are well-rested. We are really looking forward to doing this workshop with you and your girls!
Be sure you keep my cell phone number handy. If you have any problems with directions, give me a call.
See you April 26th !
Jeanne Winrich
(502) 262-0015 cell
Troop 1957
Please call Hyatt Legal Plans at 1-800-821-6400 Monday through Friday 8-7 Eastern time, for information about your legal plan.
Dear Lorena,
Just to be sure that you are aware that we have agreed to share the birthdays of the children I am again and again and again reminding you with lots of patience and hoping that you are having a truly nice day.
Sincerely,
Allan
At 5:15 I found the girls and LL in the CEP. They let me in! The lady who let me in looked Hispanic so I spoke with her in Spanish and asked her to teach my children just a little bit of her language. Sofia later told LL that I had done this and put on the appearance of being displeased.
And then, by the time we finally got outside it was close to 5:30PM but LL said that since I had first had contact with the children at 5:15PM that it was 7:15PM when I was to bring the children. I said “Rena, I do not want to argue with you about a few minutes, what is more important is Hannah’s birthday.” LL agreed that I can pick the children up at 4:30PM from CEP and then she will pick them up from Ballet at 6:30PM. I suppose that is OK. Both Hannah and Sofia did not really know how to handle the situation with me and LL talking. They behaved in funny ways both ways (in LL’s favor and in mine.) For example, Hannah would throw something at me, then I would catch her and kiss her and she would scream “Mommy!” and there was a love/hate sort of behavior to her. Sofia complained to Sofia that I was taking her to Ballet but then she was clearly happy that I would be doing so when LL suddenly turned her head to look at Hannah who was scratching the tree. Sofia smiled at me and said “Daddy, you want to take us to the Kroger near there?” Sofia and Hannah like the Kroger supermarket near there because they have found a way to get quarters out of a vending machine.
And when LL was gone the children were happy as can be. It is not trivial how the forces generate weird behaviors in them when LL and I are together.
And we walked to the convenience store nearby and bought a smoothie and donuts as an appetizer. Then we walked to the Lemon Grass, Vietnamese Restaurant (via the bike shop) for dinner. We watched movies in German on the computer,-- Tim und Struppi and Der Toaster…. --- and then we walked home.
Sofia is in dire need of activities that are interesting to her! When I go buying more presents for Hannah tomorrow for her birthday, I want to find a good present for Sofia.
Yeah, I want to wake up early tomorrow, go to the bank – find two good presents (a skate board for Hannah and a Chemistry set for Sofia? She might hate it at first?)
But is it not a sad thing that LL will not share Hannah’s birthday with me. She will only divide it. The fact that she can do this is the work of the social workers/ therapists (Kim Dial and Ginger Crumbo) here in Louisville. But it is, of course, LL’s fault, pure and simple.
I am saddened that Hillary Clinton won the Pennsylvania primaries. “My heart truly beats with a foreign rhythm and I look at you people in America, and I wonder, why do you cave in? Why di you appear to me so lame? So boring? So predictable? What ever happened to your creative instinct?”
I find myself explaining to a man, while registering people to vote (Yes, I have been volunteering for the Barrack Obama campaign for the last ten days) “The best years of my life have happened in other countries – Paraguay, India, The Dominican Republic) , the worst years of my life have happened in the USA, in Louisville.
April 23, 2008 (HANNAH’S BIRTHDAY!)
Barrack Obama is in New Albany, Indiana. (20 mins from my house).
It was a crazy day and in the end it was very pretty – well, except for LL…. Who was not bad, just cold in some ways…. Ok, let’s see.
I awoke to a splendid day. Riding my moped was a real-life dream. I went to the bank, got a couple hundred bucks (I sold my Lincoln, Mark VII the day before yesterday – the prestigious American Car with all the stickers for $300. I almost gave it away. The price reflects my feelings for the car. But it served me very well, over a year and 36 thousand miles. So now with the money, I first went to a store w2ere I bought presents for Sofia. I could not find anything that Hannah wanted. This is OK. I wanted to buy Hannah a skateboard anyway. And then I went to two skateboard shops and they were both closed. So, I went to work. After work I wrapped the two presents that I had for Sofia and then my yellow car would not start. I asked some kids on the street if they would help me. It was not easy to get their help but in the end they did help and I drove to the skateboard store. LL called me and told me tat she would give me the children at 4:15PM. That was nice! I said “YES!” and made it to the Highland coffee house by 4:20PM. LL called m at 4:15PM to determine my location. I asked LL if rather than “divide the children we could share them, both of us being with Hannah together?” and LL responded “Dream on.” I told her that she is like her mother. Anyways, I was at the Highland Coffee House right soon.
When I asked Hannah what she had gotten for her birthday she said that she had gotten nothing. However Sofia interjected and said that she had gotten an MP3 player. I was glad that she had gotten something. But it was clear that she was not thrilled.
The skateboard did not thrill her either at first.
We practiced it a little bit in the parking lot of the Highland coffee house and then her fascination started up.
But then we had to go to the Walgreens: There were two things we needed to accomplish. One of them was that we needed to buy Hannah another birthday present – because Sofia had two presents. The other was that we had to buy something to eat. I did not want the children to take Ballet classes without eating.
We bought Danish Butter Cookies, drinks… and got back in my car.
Now remember that my car does not start. It needs to be pushed to start. I had parked it so that it was on the curb so as to get a little bit of motion going to start. This caused the drinks the children were holding to splash and spill and Sofia lost control of her emotional rudder.
She called LL saying “Daddy stained m\y clothes!” (And I smiled but since I was driving the children could not see that.) Then Sofia became angst berrideled about making it to the Ballet on time. She called LL again and was all in tears about me wanting to take the children somewhere else first.
I stopped the car and told Hannah that I wanted some butter cookies too. “You have to share with me, you can not just share with Sofia!”
Then Sofia wanted Butter Cookies and a minute later Sofia was happy.
We bought ice cream and got changed for Ballet and made it to Ballet with plenty of time to spare and the children were happy as larks and that was pretty much the end of my time with them because I went back to my car to diagnose the issue with the starter. The starter is falling off!
LL was five minutes late. It did not matter because I was still with the children. When LL came she seemed like the all American snot: she did not get out of her car. She parked at the entrance to the Ballet parking lot and blocked anyone from entering or leaving and called for Hannah and Sofia to come and jump in the car. Hannah was distressed because she did not have her birthday presents with her. I told her that I would bring them to LL’s, “Mommy’s.”
But Sofia was not pleased that LL was late. I detected in her body language a shrug and a callousness to the whole situation with her mother being late.
LL has always been late --- some times so late as to have forgotten.
But I think there may be another component to Sofia’s shrug. It may be that she feels that she does not get enough time with her mother. In fact, LL has alluded to this. And the time that LL does have for the children she uses cleaning up after them.
This is in stark juxtaposition to me: I am there for the children. I always have been.
7:40PM Hannah called and asked me “How come you have not brought me my skateboard and the presents.”
“I will bring it to you now, I said.”
And I drove to LL’s. The front door was open. I called out the names of my children.
“Daddy!” Hannah called out and ran to me and hugged me.
I gave her the toys and then kissed her on the top of her head.
Very good.
I spent the rest of my evening volunteering for the Barack Obama Campaign.
Good night!
I did not get Sofia the Chemistry set I had dreamed of getting. Sofia has needs too.
April 24, 2008
Dear Lorena,
I am unable yet to resolve any reason why I should not be able to access the children from CEP. That is a time when you can not access them – since you are at work. It is a time that does not detract from the time that you are able to be with them. Do you think you could be so kind as to open up that interval for me to fill the lives of the children with other activities?
Also, I need to get an email about when I am to be with the children to make up for the time you will be out of state with them (or your family anyway—on the fancy rental property that their uncle is paying for in Florida ). I will give you until the end of this week to work out a time table to do so. That is Sunday. There is a motion hearing on Monday in spite of all attempts made to contact your lawyer and so I may address both issues at that time.
It is better to share than it is to divide.
Sincerely,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
I got my children at 5:25PM. I 2was with Peter at the Highland Coffee House and the children talked with him for a while and then we walked to Arby’s for dinner. I had purchased a science kit (electronics) which I presented to the children and they made the first four circuits.
Then we walked to Archana’s house.
We bought chocolate ymmies at the gas station near LL’s and finally ended up at LL’s.
I got a call from LL a few minutes before we arrived.
“Allan, can you do me a favor?”
“Yes, of course.”
“Can you take the trampoline out of the back of the car and bring it into the back yard?”
“Sure.”
So, after kissing Hannah on the top of the head and blowing a kiss to Sofia I went about looking at how to deal with the trampoline. It was heavy: maybe 170lbs. I thought to put it in the garbage can, which has wheels. That is a good place to hide it too. I called LL and suggested this to her. She agreed. So I rolled the trampoline into the back yard and covered it with a bag of garbage and a blanket and left it next to the house.
This is a good moment for LL and me.
Finally, something decent.
And then I returned to the Highland Coffee House where I checked my email:
I got the following email from LL’s lawyer: Mason Trenaman.
Mason L. Trenaman
Attorney at Law
600 West Main Street, Suite 300
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
(502) 589-6190 (office)
(502) 584-1744 (fax)
April 24, 2008
VIA HAND-DELIVERY
Hon. Patricia Walker FitzGerald
Judge, Jefferson Circuit Court
Family Division Three
The Judicial Center
700 West Jefferson Street
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
RE: Lasky-Headrick vs. Lasky
Case No. 06 CI 501203
Dear Judge FitzGerald:
Attached please find the transcripts of the deposition testimony of Leanne Gardner, Dr. Ginger Crumbo, Kim Dial, and Allan Lasky-Headrick. I believe both Mr. Lasky-Headrick and I request that you now consider that this case as under submission for your final ruling on the custody, parenting time, and supervision of parenting time issues.
If you have any questions or need any additional information, please feel free to contact myself and Mr. Lasky-Headrick. Unless we hear otherwise, we will await your ruling as your schedule permits.
Sincerely,
Mason L. Trenaman
Enclosures: Transcripts
cc: L. Lasky
A. Lasky-Headrick
MLT/glk
And another from Mason Trenaman:
Mason L. Trenaman
Attorney at Law
600 West Main Street, Suite 300
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
(502) 589-6190 (office)
(502) 584-1744 (fax)
April 24, 2008
VIA E-MAIL ONLY
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
egonbegone@yahoo.com
RE: Lasky-Headrick vs. Lasky
Dear Mr. Lasky-Headrick:
Deposition transcripts will be delivered to the Court by today.
Sincerely,
Mason L. Trenaman
cc: L. Lasky
Case File No. 06 CI 501203
MLT/g
OK good.
So now, finally, after almost a year, the last vestiges of the crap for the Order to be signed have been submitted. H Well, actually, I do not know if the deposition from Richard Nassr has been submitted. Should I care? But it is sad that I had already sent LL the last email that you read.
I called her and left the following message: “Hello Rena, I got an email from Mason Trenaman saying that he has filed the depositions with the court. Thank you for that..
There is no need to mention that she is loosing her lawyer. This is the second time this happens to LL and I bet it is for the same reason: Sie hat kein Geld.
April 25, 2008
7:30PM: “Here is Hannah,” said LL as soon as she knew that it was me on the phone – thereby making it not possible for me to speak with her… and yes I was able to speak with her and she told me that she was opening presents – apparently some friends had come by with presents for her. I do not think it is a big deal but then when I asked to speak with Sofia she told me that Sofia was in the bathroom so I asked her to tell Sofia to call me. I interacted in German the entire conversation – and that, by the way, is the first time that I do that!
And an email from Mabelle,
Muy querido allan!!!! Realmente las cosas parece que van a cambiar. Pero, despu´´es de muchos años, 61, el partido colorado cae con toda su cúpula y estrenduosamente. En presidente, senadores y representantes. No pense vivir para verlo. El nuevo presidente es el exobispo de San Pedro, esa región tan pobre de Paraguay. Los colorados están de velorio jajajaja. Yo he celebrado mucho. Y, aunque no se si se verán cambios rápidos, sé que habrá y muchos.
Voy en Julio a USA sería lindo verte. Podemos combinar aunque sea un fin de semana. Con el cariño inmenso de siempre. Besos a tus hijitas. mabel
To which I respond right away:
Dear Mabel,
Oh how beautiful that you will be closer in three months. I can not wait. I have no idea what your schedule or your travel itinerary looks like but I am sure of one things: We will be able to speak on the phone. It does not cost me anything to call in the US on Saturdays and Sundays or after 7PM on week days, so if you can just get near a phone…. By the way, my telephone number is (502) 714 – 8577.
I would love to bounce lots and lots of words with you.
And if we can meet that would be better than heaven,
Lots of love,
Allan
And an email from Farfar:
Allan, my suggestion is that you go over to Helmer's office and ask him or his secretary to let you have a copy of Richard Nassr's deposition. Then submit it to the judge with a letter similar to the one written by Trenaman. Let Rena have a copy of your letter and of any other correspondence you have with the judge.
I am glad that Trenaman is resigning. That evens the playing field between you and Rena, and saves money which can go to improve the lives of the children.
Your Dad
Yes, that is true. But, especially if the Judge does not rule in our favor, we will need to continue to go to court.
April 26, 2009
Today is a good day to call a lot of people:
1. KGB: Kim Dial and Ginger Crumbo, It is immoral to play heinous games with children which is what you have done with Hannah (and Sofia.) It is unethical to lie and I know absolutely that you lied about my presence at the transitions lot parking lot in a deposition. Please call me, this is Allan Lasky-Headrick at 714 – 8577.
2. Shannon Fife: It is immoral to play heinous games with children which is what you have done with Hannah (and Sofia.) It is unethical to lie, spread rumors and invite slander or in your case also libel into the lives of children, so please call me at 714 – 8577. This is Allan Lasky-Headrick.
3. Misty Roano: Hello Misty. How do I get a copy of your report? This is Allan Lasky-Headrick.
4. LeeAnn Gardner: Mi LeeAnn, well, Judge Patricia Walker-Fitzgerald has your worda and will hopefully be ordering things soon. May I ask you to act in a moral, correct, decent, and ethical manner from now on? Part of that would involve calling me since I am asking you to do so now.
5. Richard Nassr: Hi Richard, My telephone number is 714 – 8577. Can you please call me? Thanks.
6. Helmers: Hello there, this is Allan Lasky-Headrick and I am trying to figure out how I can get a copy of a deposition of Richard Nassr so please call me back at 714 – 8577 I would appreciate that.
7. I would have called Craig Hansen but his number is disconnected or no longer in service.
8. Gretel: Left a message.
9. Yanhong: Oh that was a fun conversation!
10. And my children. Yes, I was able to speak with Hannah for about ten seconds and then the phone went dead.
Today Sofia is at the sun work shop, has to do with Girl scouts – I should ask LL about this…
April 27, 2008: This is Sofia LAST girl scouts.
Right now I am planning on picking up the children at 9:00AM, breakfast at the donut shop, Unitarian Church at 10:55AM, lunch at my house: skate boarding and science kit, Girl Scouts and then visit Jerome and his family and to the Obama Campaign? Let’s see how it evolves.
Well, I picked up my children at about 9:20AM, and the first thing that we needed to do was eat breakfast so I took my children to the Donut Shop near the Sunergos Coffee shop and there we first practiced skate boarding…
But wait, on our way to the breakfast place Sofia told me that LL had called the police on me when she had come to pick up the children last time. She had claimed that I had left a child alone in the house and that I was driving with achild on the motorcycle without helmets…. I wonder if this is recorded. Go listen to it!
My god, that woman is a dangerous mother to the children. I reacted in a very calm manner to what Sofia was telling me and I can tell that she appreciated the sanity in my response.
While eating breakfast, Hannah watched a German movie and Sofia and I looked at the Encyclopedia Britannica World Atlas and talked about World Distributions, World Political Geography, Geographical Summaries and so on. “The temperature changes that happen over a year in Kentucky are the same as they are in Anchorage Alaska!” That was fun!
and then I took them to my house where Sofia worked on some of the science projects while Hannah either watched German movies or played with the skateboard
Sofia sings to the Pipi Langstrumpf movie in German while working on the electrical projects. She has marked of all the projects she has done. In fact we were in the park where I tried to get Hannah to be entertained while Sofia worked on the projects but that did not work because it was too cold and windy. Both agreed to return home and now Hannah is watching Pipi and Sofia is happy working on the electrical projects.
and then we went to Girl Scouts. I did not let Hannah stay at girl scouts but took her to lunch with me at McDonalds. I carried her on my shoulders while she watched a German movie on my laptop. That was funny, I am sure. Then when we returned to Girl Scouts we found H Sofia and Helen in a tree. I met Helens dad who explained to me that Helen had learned her Spanish from Ecuador so from now on I will speak only Spanish with Helen.
And I know that Sofia had a very good time with Helen.
And then we went to the Obama Campaign center here we picked up my new friend Jerome and took him to my home where the children continued to do science experiments – in time they learned how to burn spaghetti… and petted the cats net door and learned that there was cable TV next door and played in the park and it was oh so good…
And then I had a crazy interaction with LL about whether she comes here to pick up the children or I go there to deliver them and LL spoke with the children and told them that they need to go to her place but neither of them wanted to do that so I set a time of 7:05PM by which time we have to leave and told them so and I called LL and told her that we would be arriving late….
But you see, it is not something that LL should have spoken with the children about. So I made sure that the children know and that LL knows that it was my responsibility what time I delivered the children to LL’s and I was clear that LL that I took this approach because she was flaking on picking them up.
And so we packed up and I took them home. But on the way home, Sofia asked me what she had eaten for breakfast lunch and dinner. She wanted to know these things she knew that LL was going to ask her. I told her what she had eaten for those meals and she was satisfied.
Oh, and by the way, what was Sofia’s high point today? It was playing with the candles and melting the glass chemistry tubes from the Science Kit.
April 28, 2008
I went to court and met Mason Trenaman who informed me that my motion (to have the depositions filed) was remanded since the depositions had been filed with the court clerk…. and that his motion to cease representing LL had been signed buy the Judge. This is recorded.
I also saw John Helmers and asked him about the deposition of Richard Nassr. He pretended not to know what was going on with that when I informed him that it was not filed with the cout clerk. He said “I will call Larry.”
“Who is Larry?”
“The person who transcribed the deposition is Larry Smith.”
So, I stopped by John Helmers office to get Larry Smith’s number. They gave it to me, but they did not tell me that it was an out of state (IN) telephone number. And so I had to return and ask again. Strange?
Larry Smith: (812) 284 – 9899
Transcriptions Unlimited
P.O. Box 128
Jeffersonville, IN, 47130
I called Larry Smith and left a message but strangely enough he did not call me back.
I stopped by the Union Building to inquire about a lawyer and they told me that if I come by tomorrow, after work, that there will be a lawyer to help me.
In the late afternoon, LeeAnn Gardner called me and I let her know that she was an
Inert
Massive
Unethical
Arrogant
Immoral
Liar
In a thirty minute conversation. How much was she worth? 5%.
(She was 95% worthless.) What is the 5%? It is due to nothing other than LL and I meeting – it actually has nothing to do with LeeAnn.
She said that she would wait for LL to call her about a meeting and that she was prepared to have one meeting with us to see if it was worth having more meetings.
Specifically I told her that she was wrong to label me a bulldozer after what she and her colleagues Kim Dial and Ginger Crumbo had done (she did this in the deposition) That she was wrong to label LL the ‘victim,’ when it was Sofia and Hannah, that she was wrong to pretend that she did not know why the meetings had stopped. In short that she was a ‘liar.’ LeeAnn took offense to that. Oh well.
How many days did it take for her to call me? Quite a lot!
On Wall Street the Dow Jones Industrial average took a dive. The situation in Iraq is intolerable: Shiite militiamen are in the thick of the fighting under the Anti-American Muktada al Sadr. Mortars and rockets are fired into the ‘green zone.’
7:00PM or soon after: I tried to speak with my children today but they claimed that they could hardly hear me. I called Papo and he was able to hear me perfectly, so I deduce one or both of the following possibilities:
a. LL has set the volume low on her cell phone.
b. LL has a defective phone.
If LL has set the volume down on purpose so that communication with my children is difficult then I would not be surprised.
April 29, 2008
There is a “global food crisis.” Much of the world’s people are about to die of starvation. (No one that I have spoken with in Louisville is aware of this or cares when informed.)
There are security concerns in Afghanistan – for example, there was an attempt to murder the president, Hamid Karzai (An ally of the U.S.A.)
Paraguay is the happiest country in the world right now. The people are filled with hope. They have a new President.
I met with my lawyer, yes, I have a new lawyer now. Her name is Amanda (same name as the secretary at John Helmer’s, my last lawyer.) I gave her the entire file from Helmers.
Then I went to pick up my children and found that Nancy and LL were there! And I said “Hello to Nancy three times and she ne never responded. When I went to speak with LL, Hannah came between us saying “Grammy told you to just ignore him.” LL tried to smirk it off but Hannah repeated the same sentence. I was unable to get any information from LL about anything like the dance recital (Ballet) or her closing on a house or Sofia’s art exhibition at the school (which was today.)
And as soon as the Lasky contingency as gone and us Lasky-Headricks were together life was sublime. First the children harassed Peter (my friend the elementary school art teacher,) and then we walked to the Asian Buffet. I asked them about Grammy telling LL to ignore me.
“Actually Grammy told me to ignore you too,” said Hannah.
“Are you going to ignore me now?” I asked Hannah.
“You are going to tell the judge that we said this!” exclaimed Sofia.
“No, I do not do that. I beg people to be nice and ask everyone to only say nice things,” was my response.
We ate heartily and then we walked to LL’s by way of “den Park mit den Hunden,” and the convenience store.
As we approached LL’s we came across Miles, a six year old friend of Hannah’s. He ran t LL’s with them, Miles’s mother and I followed suit and that made for a more extended exchange of the children for me. I was able to go inside LL’s house nad catch my children and kiss them on their heads. They pretend that they do not want this but I know that they love this.
LL put up with me but she did not say a word to me.
Hum? So today was a day like many others where the children were again inculcated with the understanding that I have been victimized by the Laskys. When is Nancy going to stop?
April 30, 2008
I tried to call my children a little after 7:00PM but no one answered the phone so today my children and I were not able to interact.
I called Debbie Lee about meeting with Elgin and she said that she had spoken with Elgin and asked him to call me. She tried to invite me to realize that Elgin does not have to talk with me. “I said yes he does, maybe not legally, but morally, ethically and sociologically and in the eyes of God.”
I called Shannon Fife again: “Hello Shannon, this is Allan Lasky Headrick. I am calling you because Misty Roano told me that your report caused her to be concerned. She quoted you, Shannon Fife. So I am led to you by you yourself. Would you please call me? I am wanting to set up an appointment to meet with you. My telephone number is 714 – 8577. Thank you.
I called Misty Roanao and left a message – I let her know that I was not pleased that neithet she nor Shannon Fife had called me back and let her know that the hate andenmity from the Lasky contingency continues unabated.
I left LL with a message asking her about the two hours that I missed ten days ago.
I sent LL the following email:
Heypodey Lorena,
Let me know when the place that you are interested in buying comes through.
Let me know the name of your boy friend.
Let me know what we can do about Hannah interacting with Scottie and Sarah.
Let me know what we can do about arranging for you to get two weeks with the children in Florida.
And so on andonandon.
Most sincerely,
Allan
And then Farfar and Farmor:
Dear Farfar and Farmor,
I HAVE now started to speak in Spanish with my children so please come prepared to speak in German and SPANISH,
Lots of love,
Allan
At 5:15PM I called LL and Sofia answered the phone. She said she was in the car waiting for LL and Hannah to come out of CEP. I walked to CEP and arrived at LL’s car to find Sofia inside. She told me that she did not know why it was taking LL so long. I think it might be because I am trying to get in touch with Elgin at CEP. I will call CEP tomorrow to see what is going on.
When LL came out she said that she wanted to drop the children off at the Highland Coffee House. This makes sense since she has just been talking with CEP people about me (telling them lies) and does not want these same people to see her hand the children over to me. Moreover Hannah was in a belicose mood towards me saying “Daddy, you are not supposed to ne here!” and “get away from the car!” and “Sofia is scared of you.” And so they all got in the car and I followed them the 40m to the Highland Coffee House. I asked LL if she could call me and she said that she could not do so today because she was busy. Hannah again intervened and tried to prevent my making contact with LL. She said “Mommy does not want to have anything to do with you!” From there we walked to the Lemon Grass restaurant where we ate mostly noodles and spring rolls. We played catch as we walked. We read Tin Tin in Spanish as we ate. And then, when we were finished the children went outside and played catch together while I paid the bill.
Then we visited the video store next door and saw that there are lots of German and Spanish Videos.
We stopped by the ice cream parlor on our way to LL’s place. I carried both my children at different times on my shoulders. They love being brought back down because it is such fun to be maneuvered from way up high in my arms back to the ground.
And then I walked back to the Highland Coffee House. I looked for my cell phone without success. I drove back to LL’s. I knocked on the door but no one came. I knocked three times and no one came. I walked around the house and saw Hannah in the Kitchen. I called out to her through the window and asked to her to see if Sofia had my cell phone. She did this but there was no knowledge of my cell phone with my children.
So I went back to my car and then I found it. Gosh! I called the home phone number and Hannah picked up the phone and I told her that I had found my cell phone and that everything was OK. I felt bad for the commotion.
April 2, 2008
I called Debbie Lee of CEP and asked her what developments have taken place.
I called Sarah and left a message on her answering machine:
“Hello Sarah, I have no idea what your life is like since you have completely ex-communicated me from your life. But I have bought a house in Louisville and I am upset that there is a legal order preventing you from interacting with Hannah and it occurred to me that there is no reason why I should not also include you in the advertising that I am doing. I am renting my house and for you and Carlos and Madeleine, I would be glad to lease it to you for a very inexpensive price -- like $200 including utilities, if you want to move here and deal with the court house in terms of Hannah. And yes, Hannah is doing well. Great in fact!”
I called the Bloom School and they acknowledged receipt of the self addressed stamped envelopes I had left under the door yesterday and Mr. Duke and Ms. Schartzer each had of these. They will send me copies of Hannah’s and Sofia’s academic reports from last month.
I called at 7:00PM and at 7:45PM. The second time I called I left a message that ran along the following lines: Hello Rena this is Allan and I am of course calling to speak with my children but since I got the answering machine let me tell you that there is a world of difference between stealing an object and stealing children. Please do not accuse me of stealing anything in front of the children. Thank you.
(Yesterday LL accused me of stealing a ring I was wearing when I was picking up the children.)
April 3, 2008
It was early in the morning and the phone rang. I looked and saw that it was LL’s phone number. I answered it but all I could hear was the sound of the car. I hung up and called again.
This time LL answered. I asked “May I speak with our children?” and she passed the phone back. Of course when the children are in the presence of their mother they are unable to act in a natural manner so Hannah tried to push the phone onto Sofia and Sofia refused to take the phone and I got disconnected. When I called back, Hannah said that Sofia was in one of her moods so to speak and I tried to get her to blow a kiss to Sofia but Hannah refused to do this. So, I asked her to blow LL a kiss and she refused to do this as well. Suddenly I was disconnected.
April 3, 2008
Look at this email that Farfar sent Helmers!
John, upon reviewing your firm's invoice of this morning, I noticed that there were two items which were not properly chargeable to me nor to Allan, namely the time of 2/22 to draft your motion to withdraw and the court appearance of 2/25, in which you presented your motion to the judge and obtained her consent to withdraw.
Would you prefer to send me another invoice or would you rather I paid this one less the disputed amounts, which you will later cancel?
Concerning the substance of your decision to withdraw rather than the fees, I believe that you did the right thing. After the hearing of June of last year, when an Agreed Order had been hammered out, I was under the impression that the dispute between Allan and Lorena had been resolved, and that we could look forward to a year or more of peaceful co-existence. To my disappointment, both parties kept on fighting, Allan in an attempt to hold Lorena in contempt for not allowing him to have his children at all scheduled parenting times, and Lorena by attempting to have Allan imprisoned for non-payment of child support and by coming up with new sexual abuse allegations. Mounting legal fees were consuming funds which could have been used for the benefit of the children. My refusal to pay for legal services which Allan brought upon himself was an attempt to cool the legal battle. It was evidently not enough, as your latest invoice attests. Your decision to withdraw was another step in the same direction.
On the other hand, I also appreciate your informal advice to Allan, given after your resignation, on how to handle the deposition. When you feel that he needs guidance, you should feel free to give it to him (and to send me the corresponding invoice), but you should avoid letting him abuse of your kindness. If he goes too far in asking for advice, you should tell him that he is now his own lawyer and should stand on his own two feet.
Regards,
William C. Headrick
I responded to Farfar as follows:
Dear Farfar,
You wrote to John Helmers: “Concerning the substance of your decision to withdraw rather than the fees, I believe that you did the right thing.” Please stop undermining me. It is extremely wrong of you.
And you wrote: “After an Agreed Order had been hammered out, I was under the impression that the dispute between Allan and Lorena had been resolved…” have you checked out of reality?
Etc…
Most sincerely and with a great deal of love,
Allan
I sent LL the following message:
Dear Lorena,
How are you doing? I have just finished painting a bunch of stripes in the living room of my house and it looks like a circus. The image of the market square in the kitchen is slowly evolving. It's funny, it evolves sometimes in the most imperceptible ways. I will just add a color here or there to get rid of the paint from the brush after working with it in the living room... and I like it.
I hope to see you soon because it is 5:20 PM and I am at the Highland Coffee House. I guess I will call you,
Sincerely,
Allan
A minute later LL actually called me and told me that she was just then leaving work and that she would be bringing the children to me in another ten minutes.
Ok, so I was finally with my children half an hour late. I explained that we needed to clean the house for Farfar and Farmor. They decided that cleaning the house was going to be their homework. Hannah and Sofia painted the floor and cooked tortillas and burritos for dinner. Hannah was the main cook today.
There were two incidents of importance today:
1. Hannah asked me if I had been to Florida. I told her that I had and that I love Florida. Hannah said that she wants me to go with the Lasky Family. I told her that last year I was in jail when she went to Florida with LL and Grammy. I explained that this was a trick.
2. I told Hannah that if she ever wanted to look a the book that Sarah gave her, to let me know. She said that she does not want to talk about it because it just makes her cry. I waited a couple of minutes and then I told Hannah that it makes me cry too.
Dear Allan,
We are pleased to notify you about a newly published posting. Please visit our site again to review Vacancy #0033-2008 - HIGH SCHOOL TEACHER - SCIENCE at JOHN HARDIN HIGH SCHOOL (013).
If you are interested in applying for the vacancy, you will need to log on to our website (www.pats.hardin.k12.ky.us) and add this posting to your portfolio.
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To remind you, your "User Name" is Allan R Lasky-Headrick and your Password is schiele. To use our web site in the future, your "User Name" must be exact and your "Password" is case sensitive - be sure to remember whether you use upper and/or lower case letters.
Thank you for using our site!
Sincerely,
Personnel Department
Hardin County Schools
Report cards from Bloom Elementary school on these dates
April 16
May 30,
April 4, 2008
Farmor and Farfar arrived. I first took them to my house and then to pick up Hannah and Sofia. LL was half an hour late.
LL did enter to speak with Farmor which I thought was funny. So good, Farmor spoke with LL. I was my usual self. I asked LL about her boy friend and about the property she is buying and she denied interest in either topic.
We drove to the Old Bridge Inn and there Farmor presented the children with a collection of presents, some of which include clothes. They got dressed for dinner and then we went to a restaurant on the river. When we returned to the hotel, Hannah showed her singing abilities when presented with a cat book of songs. There was CD with the book and Hannah sang along. I noticed also that Hannah has a sense for rhythm and loves syncopation.
Things went very well, Sofia and I were busy and Hannah woke up saying that and then we did a little crocheting in her bed room and then I explained to Sofia that she needed to get up and lock the door her eyes were glittering.
April 5, 2008
I appeared at the hotel just before the children had woken up. We went to the Falls of the Ohio State Park, collected rocks and things like that and watched the movie, visited the museum… and then Farfara nd I walked with the kids along the path – the water level was too lhigh for us to complete the loop.
And then we went to lunch. Sofia, Hannah and I walked back from the restaurant on the river side. Then the children wanted to have some down time it seemed and they opted to watch the Disney Channel on TV. Farfar and I went to Sears and purchased a few things including a camera.
And when we came back, I joined my children a little while watching TV but we eventually managed to lure them away from the room (It was much harder to lure Sofia) s and on route to the park… Sofia threw an tantrum: decided that she wlould not follow us since she had lost her pink quarz rocks in a bottle that Farmor had bought for her yesterday at the Ohiop State Park…. OK, so I escorted Farfara nd Hannah to the park and when I got back to the Bed and Breakfast, I saw Farmor taking Sofia in the car. I joined them and we went to get ice cream…. Oh that was nice and then we returned to Farfar and Hannah.
I never knew if Farfar and Hannah were jealous that we had gotten ice cream? They certainly did not seem to care. But Sofia joined us and the play was excellent.
Oh Farfar and I modeled how to play Frisbee to the girls. Hannah had tried throwing the Frisbee while Sofia and I were with Farmor getting ice cream…
And then it was dinner time. We wondered what would be a good place to eat dinner and finally I decided to take us all to the Bass Pro Shop where there is a restaurant on the top floor. This was also a hit.
When we finally came back to the bed and breakfast it was very late. I remeinded the children to call their mother in the car.
Oh there was an interesting moment in the car. Hannah had asked me “what is wrong with Farmor?” when she was being fairly impossible to be with because we could not find a restaurant that would suit her and I said “she is picky.”
But there was something else… what was that? Sofia was on the phone with LL…. Hannah asked me about ???? Gosh I can not remember..
Anyways, the children watched Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and so they must have gone to bed super duper late.
April 6, 2008
Alright, got there before anyone had woken up. Farmor wanted the children to bathe before breakfast so it happened that way. The children are trying hard to keep their room clean. I saw Hannah make the bed and so on.
And then we had the whole rigmarole of convincing Sofia to go with us horse back riding.
But in the end we did it.
But we had to come back to the hotel because we could not find my insulin.
Oh dear.
And so then we finally hit the road. It was a tough psychological battle with time to get there but we did and when we got there we ate at a nice restaurant (Farfar said he liked it) and then the horse back riding experience was really good. Sofia’s horse was much more wild than Hannah;’s and Sofia on several occasions had to wrrrestle with keeping it along the path and from eating grasses. But she did a very good job.
And then the children went along on the ski lift – sledding. Farfar and I tried to catch up with them but it was not possible, Ok. We took the ski lift.
And then Hannah went back to the trampoline and Sofia took to the rick climbing. Hannah wanted to use up the last ticket but I am afraid that it was Sofia’s so I arranged for Hannah to give it to Sofia. Farfar complimented Hannah for being so kind. And then Sofia got all the way to the top of the wall and rang the bell. WOW!
Hannah was jealous and made up stories like that she had already gone up to the top and rang the bell while we were on the ski lift.
“I believe that you were up there as much as I believe in Santa Clause.”
And then we ate ice cream and drive back.
And Farmor was in a slightly funny mood and blamed me and Farfar for forcing the children to do what we wanted to do : go horse back riding.
Then we went to dinner at the Asian Buffet.
We went to Wallgreens to buy chap stick for Farmor. Farfar bought some markers for Sofia and Hanah.
Hannah said “Bitte Farfar,” and Farfars melted (sort of) and said “Ja Hannah mein Kind.”
And then we azrgued in the car. I had provided the children with paer for them to try out their markes in the car and Farmor had said that the children were not to draw in the car and I wanted to know why and was told that it was because she had said so and so you can imagine where that went.
Detrimental to all of us.
And then we came back to the bed and breakfast, Farfar had nothing to do with anyone any more – he read his book and Farmor tried to stay with the children a bit but was bored by the story of Spiderman and then stormed out of the room. Again, the kids did not know what to make of her but they decided that it had nothing to so with them, that it was a psychological problem that Farmor had and that was that. I put them to bed and kissed them.
April 7, 2008
When I got to the Hotel, at about 8:00AM, Hannah and Sofia were already awake and they were watching Spiderman. I joined them for a little while but was soon able to convince them to put their clothes on for breakfast. I think they like breakfasts at the bed and breakfast. Then I went down stars
Funny that, then Farfar knocked on their door and asked them to get ready for breakfast. That is positive reinforcement. I was at that point down stairs with this machine.
“My goodness, what another beautiful day,” Linda exclaims. And Yes, the sun is shining splendidly. What are we going to do this morning?
“Do you need help?” I ask Linda.
“Maybe in an insane asylum?”
“Oh, I can only help you actualize your deepest and prettiest tinsaniies,” I tell her. It is good.
Farfar comes down with a book.
“Man, he is lucky that he but only when we are together alone. They do not like it in public. At least Sofia does not. More on this later.
reads!” I need t do that too.
But I want to add that my children have taken a fancy to the idea that I am different. They understand this and in fact love it
And so it was that we went for a walk to the place where they make keys. A good idea. I was all for it. The children experienced a hardware store. This is good for them. They did not care for it but still.
Then we walked back to the hotel and I went to work.
When I came back from work I found them in the café. Sofia was throwing a a kind of temper tantrum and Hannah was cashing in on the Karma. I sat with Hannah for a little and then went and joined Sofia. It took me a little time to convince her to return to the table with us but eventually I was able to do that.
And then we decided to go to the speed art museum. It was closed because today is Monday.
So we went to Frankfort avenue. which was also mostly closed. But it was not a traumatizing situation for the children. They enjoyed walking along the rail road tracks and collecting rocks.
And then we came to my house. It was a perfectly crazy experience. But there were some good things that happened:
(1) Hannah played Frisbee with Farfar.
(2) Hannah rode on the moped. (on the gas tank)
(3) Hannah rode on the motorcycle in the side car.
(4) Sofia watched Farmor cook rice.
(5) Farfar rode the moped and the motorcycle and side car.
(6)
By the way, this week should be when I mark my seniority at the UPS. That means that in a month I will have health insurance for my children and me.
April 8, 2008
I arrived again just as the children were waking up. They came down to breakfast and again that was a real good experience. I took my children for a walk to the Thornton’s gas station and we bought sour things and then it was time for me to got to work. Work took a long time. I left at 10:15AM and was not back until 3:30PM.
And when I came back, I found Farfar and Farmor in their room and Sofia and Hannah in their room. Now it as a trick to convince Sofia to get out of her doldrums. She locked herself in her room and I patiently tried to coax her out but in the end, when I discovered that Hannah had the key I was able to get in.
Then it still took a couple of hours for us to get out of there. And with this psycho-what-have-you we were not able to go to the Speed Art Museum. Nobody complained to Sofia about this, we just accepted that she had destroyed that hope.
And then Sofia, Hannah and I went to the gas station to try call LL, but LL did not pick up the phone.
Hannah invited me to watch Thunder over Louisville from her house and this disturbed Sofia a great deal. She said to Hannah “Mommy will hate you,” “Mommy will throw a fit if she hears that you did that,” and so on.
We had dinner at the Bristol and dropped off the children with LL. That was a good moment. Farfar spoke with LL for a good long time and just kept her going and recounted some of the stories of the last couple of days and I played with Hannah and Sofia.
Well, my dear children, the USA is in an economic recession and at war without provocation, massive and growing federal deficit. The USA has been at war for as long as LL has been hell to my children and me. And what does that mean? It means literally that for the impoverished of America, the future of the children is dependent on creative parents. My children do not have any knowledge of social or political concerns. I believe that LL no longer listens to NPR or the BBC. At least I doubt that LL listens to these programs in the presence of the children. Certainly Nancy never listened to the news when I visited.
And so my children did not know of the three presidential candidates except that Rebecca likes Obama.
Email for LL:
Dear Lorena,
I am sending you this email to let you know that unless you agree to having me spend two hours with Sofia and Hannah over Spring Break that I will be taking you to court. I intend to ask for custody of the children as well because, of course, I should always have had custody of our children. . Also, please pick up your phone.
Sincerely,
Allan
Dear Farfar and Farmor,
I understand, after overhearing Farfar speaking with Lorena, that Farfar was not pleased with some of the things that transpired over spring break with Sofia and Hannah – although he did add that it was in total average more good than bad.
I think I have very little control over my children. I will loose control over them completely as they become teenagers. The ages between 4 and 9 are VERY important and I have lost access to my children during this time. But you know all that. However, there are some consequences. One of these is that BOTH my children are psychologically screwed – in different ways and to different extents. The cure? More interactions with them wherein which you manifest several traits: Love, understanding, empathy, chronic emotional support of their good natures, guidance here and there, and moral authority. Authority is not just something that you get for being older, but rather something that you get for acting in assertive and correct manner: In our case it means being sweet to Lorena in the presence of the children, telling the children that Lorena is always welcome, calling Lorena and Nancy in the presence of the children as much as possible, being willing to take the children to Lorena at all times, emailing and calling the children and so on. Farfar, I am not jealous of Lorena having a boy friend. She is a cold blood-psychopath-hell bitch. But the most powerful tool that can be used against such a shit is to be pretty and I hope she gets herself a boy friend because it stabilizes her pathological nature. Farfar, you are very able to be pretty and I see you doing that often. Just every now and then you say things that are shocking, like for example to suggest that I am wanting to reconcile with Lorena. My niceness with Lorena is only when the children are in the vicinity. Otherwise I am honest with her: she is a criminal and so is her mother. Farmor, I have no interest in irking Lorena, I am nice about her in the presence of my children because it is the right way to be – I have no choice anyway.
So, even though it may not have been always a happy spring break for you, it was a very good time for the children and very important as well. Thank you very much. I also had a good time – really good. I was able to play with my children like I have never been able to do so before.
Lots of love,
Allan
P.S. You brought good weather too! And you are taking it with you because it is raining now.
Dear Lionsharecology,
I just spent spring break with my children! My parents, whom we call Farmor and Farfar (those are Sweedish words) brought presents, some of which include clothes and they loved these. We went to the Falls of the Ohio State Park, collected rocks and things like that and watched the movie, visited the museum… and then Farfar and I walked with the kids along the path – the river is almost at a flood level!
Anyways, the children experienced a vacation type freedom that warranted them watching Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and so they must have gone to bed super duper late. On some nights.
The horse back riding experience was really good. Sofia’s horse was much more wild than Hannah;’s and Sofia on several occasions had to wrestle with keeping it along the path and from eating grasses. But she did a very good job.
And then the children went along on the ski lift – sledding. Farfar and I tried to catch up with them but it was not possible, Ok. We took the ski lift.
And then Hannah went back to the trampoline and Sofia took to the rick climbing. Hannah wanted to use up the last ticket but I am afraid that it was Sofia’s so I arranged for Hannah to give it to Sofia. Farfar complimented Hannah for being so kind. And then Sofia got all the way to the top of the wall and rang the bell. WOW!
We ate ice cream on the way back.
I put my children to bed and kissed them.
The children enjoyed walking along the rail road tracks and collecting rocks.
We came to my new house. It was a perfectly crazy experience: Hannah played Frisbee with Farfar. Hannah rode on the moped. (on the gas tank) Hannah rode on the motorcycle in the side car. Sofia watched Farmor cook rice. Farfar rode the moped and the motorcycle and side car. Yeah, my new house is fun.
We had our last dinner at the Bristol on Bardstown road. Then we took the children to their mother, LL: Farfar spoke with LL for a good long time and just kept her going and recounted some of the stories of the last couple of days and I played with Hannah and Sofia.
The USA is in an economic recession and at war without provocation, massive and growing federal deficit. The USA has been at war for as long as LL has been hell to my children and me. And what does that mean? It means literally that for the impoverished of America, the future of the children is dependent on creative parents.
What is going on with you?
Your brother Allan.
Here is an update on telephone interactions with my children.
I called this morning while I was still with Farfar and Farmor but no one picked up the phone. Then as I drove to the Highlands I drove past the place of LL and saw that everybody was there so there had been no reason for not being able to speak with the children -- at least it was very improbable. So I drove to the Sprint Telephone Store and called my children again but there was no answer. I did not get a telephone because I was told that I would be able to get a better telephone if I wait until the end of the month (at that point I will have been a customer for 24 months!) Do you remember that 24 months ago I was working at the Kroger Supermarket in Indianna?
And that was a good thing because I was standing
And then when talking to Rob Kearn in front of my car we heard the phone ring! I found my cell phone, in my engine compartment of my car and called my kids again to no avail.
When I returned home at 7:00PM I tried calling my children again. I got no response on the ‘linea baja’, but I got Sofia on the cell phone. She told me that she had been to the new restaurant that has games like ‘Gatti Land’ and a ‘Globo Loco.’ She had been there with Hannah, and her cousins (Joey, Leah and Ana) and I believe LL and Rebecca.
I asked her to ask Hannah to call me when we got cut off – we got cut off when they arrived at Rebecca’s place. “I love you Sofia” I said “I love you too,” she said.
Ok, so I found two things in my mail box. One of them is a copy of the document that John Helmers is no longer my lawyer. I would like to visit him again soon to see what he would require to become my lawyer again.
And then I got an order from the Judge. It states that I am the petitioner and LL is the responder. This is not the case. Ok Ok. . I must fix this in time. The Judge thinks that I disparage LL in front of the children. The Judge issues some harsh words about non-compliance with the orders which are meaningless since there is no way to check on anything that LL (or I) do. The court is inclined to think that a parenting coordinator or joint counselor is a good idea. I hope she does this. The letter states that on April 4rth, 2008, the depositions had still not been filed. Anyways, the allegations of me implementing bad talk and the allegations of LL preventing me from seeing my children were both discredited for lack of concrete evidence.
April 10, 2008: Here is my first draft:
Dear Judge Patricia Walker Fitzgerald,
Thank you for the Order NO. 06-CI-501203, LASKY VRS. LASKY-HEADRICK. It states that “The court is inclined to think that a joint counselor or a parenting coordinator is appropriate…. However the parties have nearly completed depositions… and the Court will reserve ruling on Mr. Lasky’s request until all such testimony has been submitted.” Regarding this issue: The court reporter is Wendy McLaughlin
101 North Seventh Street
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
(502) 561-3467
And her court transcripts of all the deposition have been available since March 18, 2008. It appears that the respondent is dragging their feet in submitting the transcripts of the depositions. I am asking for a hearing so that a deadline by which time the depositions must have been filed or alternativly , that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such testimony.
Also, Again and very soon after the last hearing, Allan R. Headrick was not able to be with his children for a two hours. Allan has extrinsic evidence and would like to present this to the court.
Sincerely,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
But in the end this is what I sent Lorena and her lawyer, Mason:
Dear Lorena and Mason,
I will be sending something similar to this to the court by this week unless you respond in an appropriate manner.
Dear Judge Patricia Walker Fitzgerald,
Thank you for the Order NO. 06-CI-501203, LASKY VRS. LASKY-HEADRICK.
All the deposition have been available since March 18, 2008. It appears that the respondent is dragging their feet in submitting the transcripts of the depositions. I am asking for a hearing so that a deadline by which time the depositions must have been filed or alternatively , that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such testimony.
Also, Again and very soon after the last hearing, I, Allan R. Lasky-Headrick, was not able to be with his Sofia and Hannah for a two hours. There is extrinsic evidence.
Sincerely,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
I got an email from LL:
Allan,
This is a reminder that you need to take Sofia to girl Scouts this Sunday. .Lorena.
I responded:
Dear Lorena,
Yes, I got that also from Kelly Walace and am OK with doing so. Have you sewn the patches on her band or would you like for me to do so?
Sincerely,
Allan
And so, unless LL changes her mind, I will see my children on Sunday, in four days.
Allan,
You can pay for copies of the seposition yourself and submit them. It is equally your fault so get in the game.
Also, if you paid back child support when you sold your house, then you would be looking very favorable in the Court's eyes. As it is, it is obvious you have no intention to take Court orders seriously so a motion such as you just wrote makes you seem at best a fool and at worst a hypocrite.
Lorena.
And I respond:
Dear Lorena,
I have already paid for the persons I have wanted deposed. They are my responsibility and the other people, like Kim Dial and Ginger Crumbo are people who have not been worth anything to Sofia and Hannah. However, you asked for them to be deposed. I did not ask for them to be deposed. Consequently they are not in any sense my fault. In a more general sense, none of what has been going on in the court is my fault which means also that the so called back child support does not exist. It is a fiction of your imagination.
Sincerely, Allan
But I also got another email in response to my email where I asked of LL to “let you know that unless you agree to having me spend two hours with Sofia and Hannah over Spring Break that I will be taking you to court. …”and she responds as follows:
What kind of ridiculous email is this?!
First, the only two-hour peeriod you can say you were short on visitation hours is the SUnday in March that you brought the children home two hours early. Instead of bringing them at 7:00, you brought them around 5:10pm. Quote you, "Hannah was unsustainable." Hannah was acting up & cryign incessantly to come home. You said you "gave in" and brought her home. That was your choice. You did not say, "Can you give me two hours another time if I bring her home." You simply called & asked if I was home & if you could bring the girls home. AFTER you dropped them off, you said on the front porch, "can I make up this time?" I said, "yea, probably," That is not a promise.
You, Allan, have not mentioned this to me ONCE since then. You did not say, "can we try to m ake up those two hours?" The first time you mention this is with this threatening email, proving once again that (a) you do not want to "work things out" like you whiningly prentend in Court, and (b) you are using the Courts as a way to threaten me (not a proper use iof the Court), and finally (c) you do not have the best interest of the children in your mind.
How in your mind does sending me a threatening email during my vacation help the children?
You brought the children hom at 7:35pm on Tuesday. That was 30 minutes late.
You brought the children home at 7:40pm on Tuesday April 1. That was 30+ minutes late.
Therefore, you have already made up one of the two hours. You may keep the children an extra hour this Sunday. You can bring them home at 8:00pm. So, then this little two hour issue will be taken care of.
Lorena
Well, LL has basically called me “ridiculous,” “ a fool and at worst a hypocrite.” She calls my issue a “little two hour issue.” She is as she is.
Dear Lorena,
It is incredible to read what you write. It reminds me of Jean Paul Sartre’s fiction where surreal social forces destroy a person and that person is under siege with the notion that reality is a kind of mad theater. You are to me as you were in Paraguay. Our lack of coherence shows that we need a person to make sense of the quagmire injected into the lives of Sofia and Hannah: Frequent parenting-counseling sessions and the like. Would you please agree to do this with me?
But in any case, I have asked you to make up the two promised hours in emails (on April 1 and 8) and in person (on March 22, 27 as well as April 1 and 4rth) and so I am now glad to get a first response from you about this and this is the sixth time (not the first) that I ask you.
And also please remember that I have nearly never received Sofia and Hannah at the court agreed time which is 5PM. This is because you work until 5:00PM. I am with them for the time interval agreed in court.
You promised our children and me a two hour make up, in a WRITTEN document in March 2008. Would you mind allowing the children to be with me for two hours on Monday, after school instead of an extra hour on Sunday? As always, you are welcome to share this time with us.
Sincerely,
Allan.
7:00PM I was able to speak with both of my children. This has not happened in a very long time and has been extremely infrequent in years. With Hannah I was playful because she was playful. She pretended to be Joe (I think that is the name of LL’s boy friend) but then changed it to Jareld (?) and I said things like “I am very pleased to speak with you sir and my name is Allan,” and “Let’s meet for a cup of tea at the Highland coffee house, do you know where that is?” And then I spoke with Sofia who told me that she had cleaned up her room while Grammy baby sat them and then gone to Wall*Mart. They had purchased items for the “Thunder over Louisville party” that LL is hosting at her place.
LL refused to speak with me. I asked her “how are you?” and she passed the phone on to one of the children.
April 11, 2008
I called the KGB and left the following message: “Hello, this is Allan Lasky-Headrick and I am trying to get in touch with David Weathersby, Kim Dial and Dr. Ginger Crumbo certainly at least about statements that were made during the depositions that took place in March regarding allegations you have made that say that I called and parked my car or have been in your parking lot. I am sure that you approve and applaud me advocating that people speak truthfully and denounce liars. Would all of you please contact me? My telephone number is 714 – 8577 Thank you.”
I called Misty Rowan and left the following message: “Hello Misty, this is Allan Lasky-Headrick and before I continue in my plight to save my children I wanted to speak with you. You promised me when we met that you would call me back. Please do so. I want to get a copy of your report. My telephone number is 714 -8577. Thank you.
I called John Helmers, my lost lawyer, to ask for his help. He said that I should write Judge Patricia Walker Fitzgerald a letter that goes as follows:
To the Honorable Patricia Walker-Fitzgerald
Judge, Jefferson Circuit Court
Family Court. Division Three (3)
Re: Lasky-Headrick v. Lasky
Case No. 06-CI-501302
Request for a date for a hearing
Dear Judge Patricia Walker-Fitzgerald:
This Honorable Court has reserved ruling on my request for a ruling on whether I may have possession of my children overnight during the extended parenting time given in the Agreed Order entered into by the parties at the conclusion of the hearing of June 12, 2007. The Court's ruling was reserved until the depostions of all witnesses had been submitted.
Regarding this issue: The court reporter is Wendy McLaughlin, 101 North Seventh Street, Louisville, Kentucky 40202 (502) 561-3467 Her transcripts of all the deposition have been available since March 18, 2008. In light of this situation, I respectfully request that a date be set for a hearing at which I will submit a motion requesting a deadline for the filing of such depositions or alternatively , that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such depositions.
Respectfully submitted,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
I stopped by the court house to write the following a letter to Judge Patricia Walker Fitzgerald. However, the clerk’s office was closed. I found out though, that the clerk’s office telephone number is (502) 595-3025. Here is the letter I had intended to submit.
Dear Judge Walker-Fitzgerald,
Thank you for the Order NO. 06-CI-501203, LASKY VRS. LASKY-HEADRICK.
All the deposition have been available since March 18, 2008. The respondent does not want to submit the transcripts of the depositions. I am asking that the court please rule on a basis of the testimony it already has.
With deepest respect,
Allan Robert Headrick
I regret to say that today I was not able to speak with my children. I called, as usual at 7:00PM but also around 5PM because I drove by LL’s house and saw that the car was there and the front door was open, and yet when I called no one answered the phone.
April 12, 2008
9:20AM I called and the phone was simply hung up? I called again. LL picked up the phone. It was a complicated connection. Finally LL admitted that the phone was not working and said that the children would call me back on the cell phone. She also said that we would be able to speak tomorrow after 6:00PM. The children were also at this time just waking up.
10:20AM or thereabouts I called again – to LL’s cell phon and this time I got to speak with Sofia and Hannah. We spoke well and joked and it was funny. We considered options for tomorrow: The zoo, the park, the science museum, the speed art museum and so on.
April 13, 2008
Oh what a day! It was a good day for the children even though they did not think so: they learned a lot of German and Science. Sofia did a homework on light, sound, heat, electricity and magnetism. We went to the Spanish church service and that was cool too (even though they hated it.) Yes, all in all it was a great day – even the Girl Scouts was great. Oh, and I actually took some videos and pictures of today.
Let me recount the day. I got the children late. The children knew that they would be with me until 8:00PM because LL had told them – even though LL had not read my email she told them this? I mean, she just went ahead and decided that they can know something about my day that she untilaterally decided. That’s LL for you.
Sofia was not in a good mood when I got her. LL put the blame .on me in front of the children. She accused me of being stupid (about parking the car at the gas station so the children have to walk there) and ‘incompetent,’ (about doing homework with Sofia. LL said “You did zero homework while she was with you and your family over spring break.” I asked LL to please email me these accusations rather than tell me in front of the children.
Sofia became happy within minutes of getting away from LL’s place.
Hannah told me that she had been advised by Mark Duke that I need to respect her personal space. I thought that was pretty strange so I will call Mark Duke, her teacher to conference with him.
We had breakfast at Day’s café and then went ot Wall*Mart, bought things that Sofia needed for her school.
Sofia said that she needed medicine so I called LL to fin out what that was but LL did not pick up the phone and she did not call back until we were gone from the store.
We went to the ice cream parlour and picked up my bike. The children ate ice creams.
We came to my house and while Hannah watched Tim und Struppi, Sofia worked on her homework with the materials we had bought at Wall*Mart.
Then we visited the neighbor, Jody, who has a collection of baby cats. Hannah loved this.
Then we went to Girl Scouts. I allowed Hannah to reamin with the girl scouts the entire time for the first time today.
Then we came back to my place and watched cPippi Langstrumpf, petted cats again, did art, worked some more on the homework….
And then we went to the Spanish church service in the catholic Iglesia on 4rth street.
LL called to tell me that she had read my email – at about 6:30PM and that she is alright with letting me have the children on Monday… but I was not able to get that message until after leaving the church which was already 7:00PM?
Will that happen? Is she afraid of court?
And then I took them home. I videotaped the last moments with them. It shows what a person LL is to me as well as lots of other stuff.
April 14, 2008
I went to the curt house and filed the motion below:
NO. 06-CI-501203 JEFFERSON CIRCUIT COURT
FAMILY DIVISION THREE (3)
ALLAN ROBERT LASKY-HEADRICK PETITIONER
v. MOTION FOR A HEARING
LORENA MARIE LASKY (FORMERLY LASKY-HEADRICK) RESPODENT
NOTICE
It is hereby noticed that on Monday, April 13, 2008, at 10:00 a.m., in the above courtroom, the undersigned will make the following Motion and tender the attached Order
MOTION
Petitioner, Allan Robert Lasky-Headrick, moves this Court to hold Respondent In non-compliance with the court for not submitting the transcripts of the depositions.
In support of this motion, Petitioner states two things:
(1) That Respondent has sent an email indicating that she is disinclined from submitting the depositions. And,
(2) The transcripts of the depositions have been available since March 18, 2008.
This Honorable Court has reserved ruling on Petitioner’s request for possession of his children overnight during the extended parenting time given in the Agreed Order entered into by the parties at the conclusion of the hearing of June 12, 2007. The Court's ruling was reserved until the depositions of all witnesses had been submitted.
Regarding this issue: The court reporter is Wendy McLaughlin, 101 North Seventh Street, Louisville, Kentucky 40202 (502) 561-3467. Her transcripts of all the deposition have been available since on or before March 18, 2008. In light of this situation, Petitioner respectfully requests that a date be set for a hearing at which Petitioner will submit a motion requesting a deadline for the filing of such depositions or alternatively that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such depositions.
NO. 06-CI-501203 JEFFERSON CIRCUIT COURT
FAMILY DIVISION THREE (3)
ALLAN ROBERT LASKY-HEADRICK, PETITIONER,
v. ORDER
LORENA MARIE LASKY (FORMERLY LASKY-HEADRICK), RESPONDENT.
Upon Motion of Petitioner, and the Court being otherwise sufficiently advised, IT IS HEREBY ORDERED the that a hearing will be held on the above matter on the ___ day of _____, 2008 at _:_ _ .m., allowing Respondent to show cause, if any, why she should not be held in non-compliance of this Court and requesting a deadline for the filing of such depositions or alternatively , that the court may rule on a basis that excludes such depositions.
Date: _________________, 2007 _____________________________
JUDGE,
JEFFERSON FAMILY COURT
FAMILY DIVISION THREE (3)
cc.
Allan R. Lasky Headrick Mason Trenaman, Esq.
1329 Lillian Ave 600 W. Main Street
Louisville, Ky 40208 Suite 200
Louisville, Ky 40202
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
It is hereby certified that a true and correct copy of the foregoing was served, via email and hand delivered at 8:00AM this April 13, 2008, upon:
Mason Trenaman, Esq.
600 W. Main Street
Suite 200
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
Fax-584-1744
Counsel for Respondent.
And there, at the court house I found out from the Clerk that Helmers had not filed the deposition of Richard Nassr. So I went to Helmers office and got his secretary to promise me that she would call me with a response about this issue. She seemed very stressed out but I was very polite.
Of course, Helmers did not call me today.
I called LL at about 4:00PM and told her that I would be at the Highland Coffee House at 5:15PM and she agreed to let me be with them for an hour and a half today “because I brought them at 7:30PM and so half an hour of the two hour make up has already been used up.”
April 14, 2008: LL had told me that she had sent this email yesterday and we had agreed on the phone – in a kind of relaxed and not too sure way, that if I brought the children right after church that I could have them today, Monday…
Allan:
I am just now reading this email at 6:45pm on SUnday. I did not read my email on Saturday and, as I told you this morning, I was in a workshop all day today until 6pm.
It is agreeable to me to make up the time on MOnday April 14th instead of tonight. I have tried to call you 4 times in the last 15-20 minutes and was hung up on twice. THe last two times it went straight to voice mail & I have left two messages.
Depending upon what time the kids get home tonight, we will renegotiate this make-up time but I am responding while I am logged on.
And so now, here I am at the Highland Coffee house waiting for my children.
There they are: I speak with LL just liong enough to tell her that Hannah believes in God but Sofia does not and she agrees with me.. so she knows and it is probably Nancy Lasky who is doing this? Hum?
And then we walk to the Asian Buffet and from there to LL’s. The children laughed and were happy the whole time. LL would not speak with me when I dropped the children off.
I walked back to the Highland Coffee House and drove my car back to LL’s. There was no ne at her house. I left the legal document in her mail box. I took a ton of pictures of today.
April 15, 2008,
Yes, I do not stand much of a chance of getting along with LL because I have a very hard time being nice to her about what she has done to the children – at least until we have joint custody.
I arrived at the Highland Coffee Shop at 5:15PM and she was already there with the children. Today was to be a good day! I would have the children from 5:15PM to 8:30PM.
Now, this was something that LL did not exactly want. She was working in the L and M building until 8:00PM and wanted me to bring the children at 7:15PM to hang around with her at her desk there – she is doing something to do with foster children (amazing to me since that is the woman who coached my children to lie, but anyway) and the L and M building is the site of Child Protective Services, the institution that catalyzed her hell upon my relationship with the children. I called her and told her that I would not bring the children to the L and M building so she came to my house to pick up the children at 8:30PM. I am, by the way, being quite polite about LL’s behavior on the phone. I will however say that she told me that this would detract form my next visit to which I responded that I will never allow any detractions to take place after four years of her detractions. She also told me that she will call the police and I said “have fun!”
I am guessing she did not call the police. I did not see them at my house or at the park.
But the children had a good time at the park, riding bikes, playing and then with the neighbors and the cats/kittens and then they watched videos of themselves while eating dinner.
LL did speak with Sofia and that resulted in Sofia feeling torn about me not taking her and Hannah to the L and N building, but she put up very little resistance to staying at my house. She sat on my lap and watched the movie.
When LL came, Sofia was more interested in watching the movie (of herself) than she was interested in getting in LL’s car. So, that took a few minutes.
But it is clear that Sofia and Hannah need and love their mother and that their mother is important to them no matter how evil LL may have been to me. This has always been clear to me. The changes that have happened this year include that now the children have opted to prefer no contact between their parents. That is exactly what LL wants.
Oh well, LL has drunken from the life of a sociopath and is now on a path similar to George W. Bush!
LL refused to promise me that she would speak with me on Friday evening. She suggested that Friday evening might be a good time, but refused to promise talking with me because “she can not see that far in the future.”
April 16, 2008
I emailed a copy of the motion to have a hearing that I will present the court on the 28th to Trenaman, LL’s lawyer.
I was not able to speak with my children today.
April 17, 2008
I called an left a message for Mark Duke: I want to set up an appointment to meet him.
I picked up my children at 5:30PM because LL did not deliver them to me until then. I tried to confirm with LL that she would speak with me on Friday (tomorrow) but it was like pulling teeth so I don’t really feel assured that she will call me or pick up the phone when I call. However, she did say that she does not feel that I call her(?) which I think is perfectly insane, so I will start calling her with greater frequency.
I had brought the bikes to Highland Coffee House so we rode on them, first to the mall (where we bought dinner at Subway) and then we rode our bikes to the skateboard rink down town.
We watched the teenagers perform their stunts.
Then we stopped by the Barack Obama campaign headquarters on our way to LL’s.
I then rode my bike back to the Highland Coffee House and put my bike in the trunk, drove the car back to LL’s house in order to pick up the bikes from the children. Oh! I found Hannah practicing on her skateboard in the front of the house. I showed her how to pivot swivel on the skateboard.
LL was angry when she realized that Hannah was with me. She blamed Hannah for being in the front of the house without having told her. I said to LL “She was with me.”
“She still needs to tell me!”
“No, she does not. I am just as much a parent as you.”
Hannah was very loving as I left. She called out “I love you Daddy!” and I waved at her through the sunroof and called out “Ich liebe dich auch.”
April 18, 2008
Today is Zimbabwe’s independence day from England and it’s people have nothing to be happy about. It’s economy, filled with contempt, is subjugating its people inflicting 160% inflation per year. Robert Mugabe, the dictator, raising his clenched fist is continuing to play with his people.
I got a call from Mark Duke, Hannah’s teacher. He is concerned. He said that Hannah’s behavior in class is becoming “destructive.”
She is not obeying classroom regulations, she took a quarter and scratched the walls, she is not doing her class work….
“This is certainly not the first time!” I responded and we set up an appointment for Tuesday at 8:30AM.
By the way, the sub=prime mortgage crisis has crippled, not only the US economy, but that of the entire world.
But anyway, Mark Duke denied ever having told Hannah or influenced her to manifest any psychological distance from me.
On Sunday I need to teach Hannah how to do math. I told Sofia that she should let Hannah know that I will be making sure that she can do her addition! So, yes, I was able to speak with Sofia at 7:00PM. She told me that she was at Grammy’s. Rich was mowing the lawn. Lara was with her five month old baby, Leylanie (not sure about the spelling)…
Sofia and I were cut off not too long after our conversation started. I called again and the phone was not picked up. I told LL that I would be calling her at 9:00PM. I also told her that I would like to speak with Hannah.
She never called me,
I called three times between 9:00PM and 11:30PM but she never picked up the phone.
Pope Benedict is in the USA and he is suggesting that the USA should intervene when there is Genocide in the world.
Jimmy Carter is meeting with Hammas – I reckon Obama likes this. I know Bush hates this: He does not believe in discourse with the enemy (and Hammas is according to Bush a terrorist organization.). I have no idea what Hilary thinks.
The British and the US banks are in severe problems with sub-prime mortgages.
Zimbabwe is still ruled by Robert Mugabe even though he lost the elections.
The group human rights watch has wcalled for an investigation of a reporter who is alleged to have been killed by an Israel tank.
April 19, 2008
On this god-forsaken day, I did not interact with my children and certainly also not with LL. Needless to say, LL nor my children made no attempt to call me. But I knew from my conversation with Sofia yesterday that my children were with Nancy and Lara last night and today.
April 20, 2008
I explained to LL that Hannah needed to do Math before we leave. I explained to her that Hannah had refused to do any Math in front of Archana’s house, that I had asked Sofia to tell her that we would do Math, and that I had not been able to speak with Hannah on the phone today, even though I had called and left a message asking to speak with Hannah.
“Yes, you spoke with Hannah,” LL lies “I passed the phone to Hannah twice!”
That’s Lorena.
LL told me that it was irresponsible for me to do Math with the children since Sofia had not eaten anything. She had a point here, but I decided that it was not sufficient to alter my path.
I explained to the children that Hannah had “won” already in front of Archana’s house and now it was my turn.
Well, it took some time – about half an hour. Sofia and Hannah debated and finally they came to LL’s front porch with pebbles: “We will only do math with the pebbles,” they declared.
“Ok, Sofia, show me using pebbles what 5/4 is. And you Hannah have to tell me which pebbles are pennies, nickels, dimes, quarters…”
But I had a pocket full of change and we played a game that involved Hannah buying my cell phone, my digital camera and so on. She learned how to count coins. It was clear to me that she had never done this before or if she had tried, she had not developed an algorithm hat worked for her. Soon enough, she had a grasp of adding coins.
We walked slowly to my car which was parked at the Thorntons where once again Hannah counted out the money she needed to pay for her smoothie and life was good.
But let me go back and say that LL was ttruly a terrible person at her place. She called me “rude,” “irresponsible” and according to the children she calls me “”weird” and “crazy” when I am not around. And the children were not ready at 9:00AM, they arrived in my area at 9:15AM. LL picked the children up at 7:00PM right on the dot.
Ok, the children and I discussed how we would go to the Speed Art Museum. I wanted to ride the bikes there but they wanted to go in the car. We flipped a coin and they won so we drove to the Speed Museum – only to find that it was closed.
I took them to my house.
Hannah learned a lot of German! In fact, Hannah is right at the edge of beginning to speak German. She spoke more German today, both to me and to herself, than she ever has since arriving in the USA. She watched Pipi Langstrumpf, Tim und Struppi and a Disney movie in German today. In the mean time Sofia cooked pancakes.
“Daddy I am having a little bit extra coming up for you and Hannah OK?”
Sofia is cooking pancakes. She is loving this endeavor and is being creative about it - creating shapes and forms…
Sofia also drew pictures of all nine planets. Then Sofia came and sat on my lap to watch the movies with Hannah. Sofia loves sitting on my lap.
Hannah loves riding motorcycles with me. She gets in front and loves the feeling. She had a bag of flowers that she had collected from the ground in front of my house and she spread these as we rode around. Hannah also loves the park.
I called LL to establish if she or I would be picking up/ delivering the children and LL agreed to pick them up.
When LL came to pick the children up she was on the phone and so I was not able to speak with her.
April 21, 2008
8:19AM LL called me to suggest that I call Mason Trenaman, her lawyer because she does not believe Trenaman has gotten notice of the motion I am presenting the court on the 28th. I told her that I had emailed it to her.
I think LL was confused, thinking that it was set for today (it is Monday.)
Anyway, she gave me Trenaman’s tel. number
(502) 589 – 6190
Hum? I do not care to call her lawyer. I suppose I could, but why? I will probably wait a couple of days and then hand deliver the document to him…
LL said that she is getting the depositions prepared. She said that I should cancel the motion fro this reason. She said that “Trenaman is preparing the motion and will submit it this week.”
She said that she had to pau $800 to purchase the depositions and this is the reason it was taking so long.
“You pay for evil,” I thought and changed topics of conversation.
“Sofia and Hannah say that you are moving out on May 5th?”
“Well, no but I am hoping to close on that day.” She responded.
“Good luck Rena,” said and with that the conversation ended.
LORENA IS A CRIMINAL WHO GOT AWAY FWITH THE CRIME. I am acclimated to the reality that there are many people who commit crimes and do not get caught and that LL is one of them. This is nothing novel.
The problem that my children and I still have is that LL continues to pretend that I am a criminal and after all this time, she has a long history that no one wants to tackle.
I have fun at work at UPS and a great source of my pleasure has to do with having made a friend who, like me, has been denigrated sociologically and most unethically.
There has been a huge shake up in Paraguay’s political realm: Fernando Lugo a Catholic Bishop, not of the Partido Colorado, won the presidency. “Today we can state that small people can also win. This is the Paraguay of my dreams. Hoy más que nunca este Lugo los quiere mucho.”
Finally Paraguay can smile.
Yes, mine is a careful dance, a dance of anger, but I move in my life here in Louisville in a dance of strategy and long term care.
And the dance is not easy.
There is a war going on in Iraq. There was a story on National Public Radio about a child who needed medical treatment in Bagdad, Iraq, and was sent to Kabul, Afghanistan, where again the doctors and hospitals refused to take the patient and so now the child is being shipped to Karachi, Pakistan…
And that story brings tears to my eyes, but that child is surrounded by love. My children and I, an in particular, my relationship with my children is hated. The child from Iraq may die and my children will live. Is a life with hate better than a shorter life with love? Tell me! Well, it depends. Children are versatile. My children may be able to wear off the hate? Or most of it?
I sent LL’s lawyer an email:
Mr. Trenaman esq.,
Your client, Lorena Lasky, called me this morning and told me that you will be submitting the depositions by Friday. If you confirm, then I will remove my latest motion. wherein which I ask for a hearing to put a deadline by which time the depositions are to be handed in or not considered.
Sincerely,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
I was able to speak with Hannah for just a little time. LL picked up the phone and said “did you call Trenaman?”
“No, I emailed him.” I said. Then she put me with Hannah and that lasted barely a couple of seconds. I called back to speak with Sofia but LL did not pick up the phone and so I left a message asking to speak with Sofia.
9:30PM I called LL and she picked up the phone! Wow! Cool! This is the first time in ages that she actually picks up the phone.
I said “Can we talk Rena?”
She said “I guess we can talk for a little bit.”
“How long is a little bit? Is it five minutes?”
“I do not know.”
“Can I have the children over at my house?”
“No.”
“Why not?”
“Because you failed the lie detector test.”
“Well, I swear that the children’s statements do not have an iota of truth.”
“uhum.”
“And so that means that the source of their statements must have come from Kentucky.”
“Allan, if you are going to accuse me, I am going to hang up.”
“I am just speaking the truth, but why is Hannah doing so badly in school?”
“She is not.”
“Yes, she is.”
“No she is not.”
“Well the only two changes that have happened is that she is taking less ADHD medicin and she has been with you.”
“Why don’t you tell me that her meds are being reduced?
“Well, I am sure that you want the information but you take no responsibility for making the payments.”
“If I had custody of the children then they would by fully insured.”
“I am going to hang up.”
Click.
Lorena is a very evil woman. I know that she is evil because the evidence is too great: for example, less than a year ago she tried to coach Hannah to claim that I had sexually abused her. There was another round of allegations – this was again fully the work of a cold blooded conniving woman: my EX-wife.
So how to address her when I next see her tomorrow evening? My usual self would be to smile, laugh and say something like “thank you for speaking with me when I called you last night. That was a very nice gesture and I am deeply happy that you spoke with me. When do you think we can talk again?”
I called the KGB and left a message on their answering machine that went as follows: “Hello, this is Allan Robert Lasky-Headrick. I am the father of Sofia and Hannah. You Kim Dial and Dr. Ginger Crumbo, have severely thwarted my reputation in the world without my being eligible. That is to say that everything you have spoken to the judges in Kentucky and Texas is not worth the nitrogen you exhaled or inhaled. And now you are not speaking to me – or at least you have not for a while. I am guessing that you are scared because of the heinous socio-pathological influence that you have both endorsed and supported in the lives of my children? So, if that is not the case or what ever reason you may have for not calling me before, please call me now. My telephone number is (502) 714 – 8577. Thank you.
April 22, 2008
I met Mark Duke and the EEC teacher – I have forgotten her name. I explained that Hannah had acted in threatening manners to herself and to her classmates and teachers at the last school. I explained that she was sent to the Western Day Care Training Center. Hannah has been acting out of sorts according to both the teachers I spoke with. She has either pretend punched a kid in the face or actually done so. She has scratched the walls with a quarter. She says things that make no sense and reacts in manners that are not expected. Like she will say something that “comes from left field.”
I explained to the teachers that Hannah had been used as a pawn in LL’s ploy to get rid of me – that I had been accused of sexually abusing Hannah and that this was, of course, completely false.
I told Mark Duke that any indication that he could give Hannah that provides her with an understanding that he can be trusted, is honest, fair and square is good for Hannah.
I told the teachers that Hannah lies.
As I rode my motorcycle back home I wondered to myself “am I still the victim?” The answer, as best I can resolve is that I have never really allowed myself to experience the sensation of victimhood, rather I felt that my children were/are the victims. AND THEY ARE STILL! All you have to do is observe the behavior of the Lasky’s in our presence. But yes, I have been and continue to be the object of the label “pedophile.” And so the straight answer to the question is “yes, I am still a victim,” but I do not feel it because I am much too global to fall for such local crap.
An email from the Girl scouts troop leader:
On Saturday April 26 is the Sign of the Sun Workshop (Junior's Only), we will meet at Deer Park at 8:30 am, please do not be late.
The girls that are registered are: Katherine, Katie, Alexis, Emma, Zoe, Sofia, and Jasmine
Please bring 1 - 10 pairs of socks for donation (See below for Service Project #1)
BethAnn and myself will get the girls at the workshop and Carolyn will meet us at 1 pm, I will be leaving at 1 pm so BethAnn and Carolyn will get the girls back to Deer Park after the workshop.
_____________________________________________________________________________
On Sunday April 27 3-4:30 pm is our last meeting of the troop year.
Brownie's are you still bringing your supplies to finish the try-it, Number and Shapes, if I need to pick up any supplies please let me know.
Zoe -- bring snack enough for 16 girls
We will also have a year end meeting/ceremony in May, make sure to keep an eye on your email for date and time.
Thanks,
Kelly
________________________________________
Hello!
Thank you for registering for Troop 1957's Sign of the Sun Workshop. This email confirms that I have received your registration and we are looking forward to Saturday's workshop! I need to give you some details for the day. Please pass this information on to the girls and parents in your troop (especially #2!).
1) Basic information:
- Please be sure you meet Safety-Wise requirements for adults. For Juniors, that means 2 adults for 2 - 16 girls.
- Do not bring Tag-alongs (with the exception of nursing mothers). We have over 50 girls attending plus adults. We did not count on Tag-alongs attending, and will not have room or accomodations for them.
- Troops will remain together. We have divided attendees into 4 groups. The workshop leaders will rotate for 4 sessions while girls remain seated in their groups.
2) Service project #1: One of our activities is to do a service project for a church or community organization. Since the church is allowing us to use the space, we have decided to work with them on a service project. Please have each girl bring a packet of new socks. They can bring 1 pair to 10 pairs - whatever they think they can bring. The socks can be for men, women, girls or boys. The Salem United Church of Christ will distribute them to homeless and needy people. This church is very active in the community.
3) Service project #2: As stated on the registration form, we will be doing a service project for U.S. Soldiers overseas. We will be folding small flags for soldiers to put in their pockets and take with them out in the field. These are called "pocket flags." We will provide everything needed for this project. We think this will be a great project with lasting effects for the men and women fighting for us overseas. It's one way to remind them that we support and appreciate what they are doing - regardless of anyone's political views.
4) Check-in: Check-in will begin at 9:30 AM. We will serve a breakfast of doughnuts, fruit, juice, and milk until 10:00. We will have coffee for the adults. Please don't be late - it will throw everything off and we won't be able to give you and your girls the proper instructions and attention you need to get started. You may arrive 10 - 15 minutes early to speed the check in process, if you want. Upon arrival, girls will be escorted to their workshop room. Breakfast will be eaten in the workshop rooms.
5) Lunch: Lunch will be at 11:55. We will be serving pizza, salad, cookies, and lemonade. We will have cheese and pepperoni pizzas. Adults are welcome to join us for lunch. There is no charge for Safety-wise adults from each troop. If additional adults would like to join us for lunch, the cost is $5 per adult.
6) Snack: We will provide a snack at about 1:50. Snack will consist of popcorn and lemonade.
7) Award ceremony: After girls have completed all the activities, we will do a small award ceremony to present them with their Sign of the Star patches. If we have time, the workshop leaders will lead the girls in a few closing songs.
8) Church address: The event is at the Salem United Church of Christ at 3408 Newburg Road in Louisville. Get on 264 - Waterson Parkway. Take the Newburg Road exit South (right if you're going East, left if you're going West). The church is on the right hand side - it's easy to see. Park in the back and enter the double glass doors.
9) One more thing - This day is going to be packed with activities, but will be a lot of fun! Girls will enjoy themselves more if they are well-rested. We are really looking forward to doing this workshop with you and your girls!
Be sure you keep my cell phone number handy. If you have any problems with directions, give me a call.
See you April 26th !
Jeanne Winrich
(502) 262-0015 cell
Troop 1957
Please call Hyatt Legal Plans at 1-800-821-6400 Monday through Friday 8-7 Eastern time, for information about your legal plan.
Dear Lorena,
Just to be sure that you are aware that we have agreed to share the birthdays of the children I am again and again and again reminding you with lots of patience and hoping that you are having a truly nice day.
Sincerely,
Allan
At 5:15 I found the girls and LL in the CEP. They let me in! The lady who let me in looked Hispanic so I spoke with her in Spanish and asked her to teach my children just a little bit of her language. Sofia later told LL that I had done this and put on the appearance of being displeased.
And then, by the time we finally got outside it was close to 5:30PM but LL said that since I had first had contact with the children at 5:15PM that it was 7:15PM when I was to bring the children. I said “Rena, I do not want to argue with you about a few minutes, what is more important is Hannah’s birthday.” LL agreed that I can pick the children up at 4:30PM from CEP and then she will pick them up from Ballet at 6:30PM. I suppose that is OK. Both Hannah and Sofia did not really know how to handle the situation with me and LL talking. They behaved in funny ways both ways (in LL’s favor and in mine.) For example, Hannah would throw something at me, then I would catch her and kiss her and she would scream “Mommy!” and there was a love/hate sort of behavior to her. Sofia complained to Sofia that I was taking her to Ballet but then she was clearly happy that I would be doing so when LL suddenly turned her head to look at Hannah who was scratching the tree. Sofia smiled at me and said “Daddy, you want to take us to the Kroger near there?” Sofia and Hannah like the Kroger supermarket near there because they have found a way to get quarters out of a vending machine.
And when LL was gone the children were happy as can be. It is not trivial how the forces generate weird behaviors in them when LL and I are together.
And we walked to the convenience store nearby and bought a smoothie and donuts as an appetizer. Then we walked to the Lemon Grass, Vietnamese Restaurant (via the bike shop) for dinner. We watched movies in German on the computer,-- Tim und Struppi and Der Toaster…. --- and then we walked home.
Sofia is in dire need of activities that are interesting to her! When I go buying more presents for Hannah tomorrow for her birthday, I want to find a good present for Sofia.
Yeah, I want to wake up early tomorrow, go to the bank – find two good presents (a skate board for Hannah and a Chemistry set for Sofia? She might hate it at first?)
But is it not a sad thing that LL will not share Hannah’s birthday with me. She will only divide it. The fact that she can do this is the work of the social workers/ therapists (Kim Dial and Ginger Crumbo) here in Louisville. But it is, of course, LL’s fault, pure and simple.
I am saddened that Hillary Clinton won the Pennsylvania primaries. “My heart truly beats with a foreign rhythm and I look at you people in America, and I wonder, why do you cave in? Why di you appear to me so lame? So boring? So predictable? What ever happened to your creative instinct?”
I find myself explaining to a man, while registering people to vote (Yes, I have been volunteering for the Barrack Obama campaign for the last ten days) “The best years of my life have happened in other countries – Paraguay, India, The Dominican Republic) , the worst years of my life have happened in the USA, in Louisville.
April 23, 2008 (HANNAH’S BIRTHDAY!)
Barrack Obama is in New Albany, Indiana. (20 mins from my house).
It was a crazy day and in the end it was very pretty – well, except for LL…. Who was not bad, just cold in some ways…. Ok, let’s see.
I awoke to a splendid day. Riding my moped was a real-life dream. I went to the bank, got a couple hundred bucks (I sold my Lincoln, Mark VII the day before yesterday – the prestigious American Car with all the stickers for $300. I almost gave it away. The price reflects my feelings for the car. But it served me very well, over a year and 36 thousand miles. So now with the money, I first went to a store w2ere I bought presents for Sofia. I could not find anything that Hannah wanted. This is OK. I wanted to buy Hannah a skateboard anyway. And then I went to two skateboard shops and they were both closed. So, I went to work. After work I wrapped the two presents that I had for Sofia and then my yellow car would not start. I asked some kids on the street if they would help me. It was not easy to get their help but in the end they did help and I drove to the skateboard store. LL called me and told me tat she would give me the children at 4:15PM. That was nice! I said “YES!” and made it to the Highland coffee house by 4:20PM. LL called m at 4:15PM to determine my location. I asked LL if rather than “divide the children we could share them, both of us being with Hannah together?” and LL responded “Dream on.” I told her that she is like her mother. Anyways, I was at the Highland Coffee House right soon.
When I asked Hannah what she had gotten for her birthday she said that she had gotten nothing. However Sofia interjected and said that she had gotten an MP3 player. I was glad that she had gotten something. But it was clear that she was not thrilled.
The skateboard did not thrill her either at first.
We practiced it a little bit in the parking lot of the Highland coffee house and then her fascination started up.
But then we had to go to the Walgreens: There were two things we needed to accomplish. One of them was that we needed to buy Hannah another birthday present – because Sofia had two presents. The other was that we had to buy something to eat. I did not want the children to take Ballet classes without eating.
We bought Danish Butter Cookies, drinks… and got back in my car.
Now remember that my car does not start. It needs to be pushed to start. I had parked it so that it was on the curb so as to get a little bit of motion going to start. This caused the drinks the children were holding to splash and spill and Sofia lost control of her emotional rudder.
She called LL saying “Daddy stained m\y clothes!” (And I smiled but since I was driving the children could not see that.) Then Sofia became angst berrideled about making it to the Ballet on time. She called LL again and was all in tears about me wanting to take the children somewhere else first.
I stopped the car and told Hannah that I wanted some butter cookies too. “You have to share with me, you can not just share with Sofia!”
Then Sofia wanted Butter Cookies and a minute later Sofia was happy.
We bought ice cream and got changed for Ballet and made it to Ballet with plenty of time to spare and the children were happy as larks and that was pretty much the end of my time with them because I went back to my car to diagnose the issue with the starter. The starter is falling off!
LL was five minutes late. It did not matter because I was still with the children. When LL came she seemed like the all American snot: she did not get out of her car. She parked at the entrance to the Ballet parking lot and blocked anyone from entering or leaving and called for Hannah and Sofia to come and jump in the car. Hannah was distressed because she did not have her birthday presents with her. I told her that I would bring them to LL’s, “Mommy’s.”
But Sofia was not pleased that LL was late. I detected in her body language a shrug and a callousness to the whole situation with her mother being late.
LL has always been late --- some times so late as to have forgotten.
But I think there may be another component to Sofia’s shrug. It may be that she feels that she does not get enough time with her mother. In fact, LL has alluded to this. And the time that LL does have for the children she uses cleaning up after them.
This is in stark juxtaposition to me: I am there for the children. I always have been.
7:40PM Hannah called and asked me “How come you have not brought me my skateboard and the presents.”
“I will bring it to you now, I said.”
And I drove to LL’s. The front door was open. I called out the names of my children.
“Daddy!” Hannah called out and ran to me and hugged me.
I gave her the toys and then kissed her on the top of her head.
Very good.
I spent the rest of my evening volunteering for the Barack Obama Campaign.
Good night!
I did not get Sofia the Chemistry set I had dreamed of getting. Sofia has needs too.
April 24, 2008
Dear Lorena,
I am unable yet to resolve any reason why I should not be able to access the children from CEP. That is a time when you can not access them – since you are at work. It is a time that does not detract from the time that you are able to be with them. Do you think you could be so kind as to open up that interval for me to fill the lives of the children with other activities?
Also, I need to get an email about when I am to be with the children to make up for the time you will be out of state with them (or your family anyway—on the fancy rental property that their uncle is paying for in Florida ). I will give you until the end of this week to work out a time table to do so. That is Sunday. There is a motion hearing on Monday in spite of all attempts made to contact your lawyer and so I may address both issues at that time.
It is better to share than it is to divide.
Sincerely,
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
I got my children at 5:25PM. I 2was with Peter at the Highland Coffee House and the children talked with him for a while and then we walked to Arby’s for dinner. I had purchased a science kit (electronics) which I presented to the children and they made the first four circuits.
Then we walked to Archana’s house.
We bought chocolate ymmies at the gas station near LL’s and finally ended up at LL’s.
I got a call from LL a few minutes before we arrived.
“Allan, can you do me a favor?”
“Yes, of course.”
“Can you take the trampoline out of the back of the car and bring it into the back yard?”
“Sure.”
So, after kissing Hannah on the top of the head and blowing a kiss to Sofia I went about looking at how to deal with the trampoline. It was heavy: maybe 170lbs. I thought to put it in the garbage can, which has wheels. That is a good place to hide it too. I called LL and suggested this to her. She agreed. So I rolled the trampoline into the back yard and covered it with a bag of garbage and a blanket and left it next to the house.
This is a good moment for LL and me.
Finally, something decent.
And then I returned to the Highland Coffee House where I checked my email:
I got the following email from LL’s lawyer: Mason Trenaman.
Mason L. Trenaman
Attorney at Law
600 West Main Street, Suite 300
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
(502) 589-6190 (office)
(502) 584-1744 (fax)
April 24, 2008
VIA HAND-DELIVERY
Hon. Patricia Walker FitzGerald
Judge, Jefferson Circuit Court
Family Division Three
The Judicial Center
700 West Jefferson Street
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
RE: Lasky-Headrick vs. Lasky
Case No. 06 CI 501203
Dear Judge FitzGerald:
Attached please find the transcripts of the deposition testimony of Leanne Gardner, Dr. Ginger Crumbo, Kim Dial, and Allan Lasky-Headrick. I believe both Mr. Lasky-Headrick and I request that you now consider that this case as under submission for your final ruling on the custody, parenting time, and supervision of parenting time issues.
If you have any questions or need any additional information, please feel free to contact myself and Mr. Lasky-Headrick. Unless we hear otherwise, we will await your ruling as your schedule permits.
Sincerely,
Mason L. Trenaman
Enclosures: Transcripts
cc: L. Lasky
A. Lasky-Headrick
MLT/glk
And another from Mason Trenaman:
Mason L. Trenaman
Attorney at Law
600 West Main Street, Suite 300
Louisville, Kentucky 40202
(502) 589-6190 (office)
(502) 584-1744 (fax)
April 24, 2008
VIA E-MAIL ONLY
Allan R. Lasky-Headrick
egonbegone@yahoo.com
RE: Lasky-Headrick vs. Lasky
Dear Mr. Lasky-Headrick:
Deposition transcripts will be delivered to the Court by today.
Sincerely,
Mason L. Trenaman
cc: L. Lasky
Case File No. 06 CI 501203
MLT/g
OK good.
So now, finally, after almost a year, the last vestiges of the crap for the Order to be signed have been submitted. H Well, actually, I do not know if the deposition from Richard Nassr has been submitted. Should I care? But it is sad that I had already sent LL the last email that you read.
I called her and left the following message: “Hello Rena, I got an email from Mason Trenaman saying that he has filed the depositions with the court. Thank you for that..
There is no need to mention that she is loosing her lawyer. This is the second time this happens to LL and I bet it is for the same reason: Sie hat kein Geld.
April 25, 2008
7:30PM: “Here is Hannah,” said LL as soon as she knew that it was me on the phone – thereby making it not possible for me to speak with her… and yes I was able to speak with her and she told me that she was opening presents – apparently some friends had come by with presents for her. I do not think it is a big deal but then when I asked to speak with Sofia she told me that Sofia was in the bathroom so I asked her to tell Sofia to call me. I interacted in German the entire conversation – and that, by the way, is the first time that I do that!
And an email from Mabelle,
Muy querido allan!!!! Realmente las cosas parece que van a cambiar. Pero, despu´´es de muchos años, 61, el partido colorado cae con toda su cúpula y estrenduosamente. En presidente, senadores y representantes. No pense vivir para verlo. El nuevo presidente es el exobispo de San Pedro, esa región tan pobre de Paraguay. Los colorados están de velorio jajajaja. Yo he celebrado mucho. Y, aunque no se si se verán cambios rápidos, sé que habrá y muchos.
Voy en Julio a USA sería lindo verte. Podemos combinar aunque sea un fin de semana. Con el cariño inmenso de siempre. Besos a tus hijitas. mabel
To which I respond right away:
Dear Mabel,
Oh how beautiful that you will be closer in three months. I can not wait. I have no idea what your schedule or your travel itinerary looks like but I am sure of one things: We will be able to speak on the phone. It does not cost me anything to call in the US on Saturdays and Sundays or after 7PM on week days, so if you can just get near a phone…. By the way, my telephone number is (502) 714 – 8577.
I would love to bounce lots and lots of words with you.
And if we can meet that would be better than heaven,
Lots of love,
Allan
And an email from Farfar:
Allan, my suggestion is that you go over to Helmer's office and ask him or his secretary to let you have a copy of Richard Nassr's deposition. Then submit it to the judge with a letter similar to the one written by Trenaman. Let Rena have a copy of your letter and of any other correspondence you have with the judge.
I am glad that Trenaman is resigning. That evens the playing field between you and Rena, and saves money which can go to improve the lives of the children.
Your Dad
Yes, that is true. But, especially if the Judge does not rule in our favor, we will need to continue to go to court.
April 26, 2009
Today is a good day to call a lot of people:
1. KGB: Kim Dial and Ginger Crumbo, It is immoral to play heinous games with children which is what you have done with Hannah (and Sofia.) It is unethical to lie and I know absolutely that you lied about my presence at the transitions lot parking lot in a deposition. Please call me, this is Allan Lasky-Headrick at 714 – 8577.
2. Shannon Fife: It is immoral to play heinous games with children which is what you have done with Hannah (and Sofia.) It is unethical to lie, spread rumors and invite slander or in your case also libel into the lives of children, so please call me at 714 – 8577. This is Allan Lasky-Headrick.
3. Misty Roano: Hello Misty. How do I get a copy of your report? This is Allan Lasky-Headrick.
4. LeeAnn Gardner: Mi LeeAnn, well, Judge Patricia Walker-Fitzgerald has your worda and will hopefully be ordering things soon. May I ask you to act in a moral, correct, decent, and ethical manner from now on? Part of that would involve calling me since I am asking you to do so now.
5. Richard Nassr: Hi Richard, My telephone number is 714 – 8577. Can you please call me? Thanks.
6. Helmers: Hello there, this is Allan Lasky-Headrick and I am trying to figure out how I can get a copy of a deposition of Richard Nassr so please call me back at 714 – 8577 I would appreciate that.
7. I would have called Craig Hansen but his number is disconnected or no longer in service.
8. Gretel: Left a message.
9. Yanhong: Oh that was a fun conversation!
10. And my children. Yes, I was able to speak with Hannah for about ten seconds and then the phone went dead.
Today Sofia is at the sun work shop, has to do with Girl scouts – I should ask LL about this…
April 27, 2008: This is Sofia LAST girl scouts.
Right now I am planning on picking up the children at 9:00AM, breakfast at the donut shop, Unitarian Church at 10:55AM, lunch at my house: skate boarding and science kit, Girl Scouts and then visit Jerome and his family and to the Obama Campaign? Let’s see how it evolves.
Well, I picked up my children at about 9:20AM, and the first thing that we needed to do was eat breakfast so I took my children to the Donut Shop near the Sunergos Coffee shop and there we first practiced skate boarding…
But wait, on our way to the breakfast place Sofia told me that LL had called the police on me when she had come to pick up the children last time. She had claimed that I had left a child alone in the house and that I was driving with achild on the motorcycle without helmets…. I wonder if this is recorded. Go listen to it!
My god, that woman is a dangerous mother to the children. I reacted in a very calm manner to what Sofia was telling me and I can tell that she appreciated the sanity in my response.
While eating breakfast, Hannah watched a German movie and Sofia and I looked at the Encyclopedia Britannica World Atlas and talked about World Distributions, World Political Geography, Geographical Summaries and so on. “The temperature changes that happen over a year in Kentucky are the same as they are in Anchorage Alaska!” That was fun!
and then I took them to my house where Sofia worked on some of the science projects while Hannah either watched German movies or played with the skateboard
Sofia sings to the Pipi Langstrumpf movie in German while working on the electrical projects. She has marked of all the projects she has done. In fact we were in the park where I tried to get Hannah to be entertained while Sofia worked on the projects but that did not work because it was too cold and windy. Both agreed to return home and now Hannah is watching Pipi and Sofia is happy working on the electrical projects.
and then we went to Girl Scouts. I did not let Hannah stay at girl scouts but took her to lunch with me at McDonalds. I carried her on my shoulders while she watched a German movie on my laptop. That was funny, I am sure. Then when we returned to Girl Scouts we found H Sofia and Helen in a tree. I met Helens dad who explained to me that Helen had learned her Spanish from Ecuador so from now on I will speak only Spanish with Helen.
And I know that Sofia had a very good time with Helen.
And then we went to the Obama Campaign center here we picked up my new friend Jerome and took him to my home where the children continued to do science experiments – in time they learned how to burn spaghetti… and petted the cats net door and learned that there was cable TV next door and played in the park and it was oh so good…
And then I had a crazy interaction with LL about whether she comes here to pick up the children or I go there to deliver them and LL spoke with the children and told them that they need to go to her place but neither of them wanted to do that so I set a time of 7:05PM by which time we have to leave and told them so and I called LL and told her that we would be arriving late….
But you see, it is not something that LL should have spoken with the children about. So I made sure that the children know and that LL knows that it was my responsibility what time I delivered the children to LL’s and I was clear that LL that I took this approach because she was flaking on picking them up.
And so we packed up and I took them home. But on the way home, Sofia asked me what she had eaten for breakfast lunch and dinner. She wanted to know these things she knew that LL was going to ask her. I told her what she had eaten for those meals and she was satisfied.
Oh, and by the way, what was Sofia’s high point today? It was playing with the candles and melting the glass chemistry tubes from the Science Kit.
April 28, 2008
I went to court and met Mason Trenaman who informed me that my motion (to have the depositions filed) was remanded since the depositions had been filed with the court clerk…. and that his motion to cease representing LL had been signed buy the Judge. This is recorded.
I also saw John Helmers and asked him about the deposition of Richard Nassr. He pretended not to know what was going on with that when I informed him that it was not filed with the cout clerk. He said “I will call Larry.”
“Who is Larry?”
“The person who transcribed the deposition is Larry Smith.”
So, I stopped by John Helmers office to get Larry Smith’s number. They gave it to me, but they did not tell me that it was an out of state (IN) telephone number. And so I had to return and ask again. Strange?
Larry Smith: (812) 284 – 9899
Transcriptions Unlimited
P.O. Box 128
Jeffersonville, IN, 47130
I called Larry Smith and left a message but strangely enough he did not call me back.
I stopped by the Union Building to inquire about a lawyer and they told me that if I come by tomorrow, after work, that there will be a lawyer to help me.
In the late afternoon, LeeAnn Gardner called me and I let her know that she was an
Inert
Massive
Unethical
Arrogant
Immoral
Liar
In a thirty minute conversation. How much was she worth? 5%.
(She was 95% worthless.) What is the 5%? It is due to nothing other than LL and I meeting – it actually has nothing to do with LeeAnn.
She said that she would wait for LL to call her about a meeting and that she was prepared to have one meeting with us to see if it was worth having more meetings.
Specifically I told her that she was wrong to label me a bulldozer after what she and her colleagues Kim Dial and Ginger Crumbo had done (she did this in the deposition) That she was wrong to label LL the ‘victim,’ when it was Sofia and Hannah, that she was wrong to pretend that she did not know why the meetings had stopped. In short that she was a ‘liar.’ LeeAnn took offense to that. Oh well.
How many days did it take for her to call me? Quite a lot!
On Wall Street the Dow Jones Industrial average took a dive. The situation in Iraq is intolerable: Shiite militiamen are in the thick of the fighting under the Anti-American Muktada al Sadr. Mortars and rockets are fired into the ‘green zone.’
7:00PM or soon after: I tried to speak with my children today but they claimed that they could hardly hear me. I called Papo and he was able to hear me perfectly, so I deduce one or both of the following possibilities:
a. LL has set the volume low on her cell phone.
b. LL has a defective phone.
If LL has set the volume down on purpose so that communication with my children is difficult then I would not be surprised.
April 29, 2008
There is a “global food crisis.” Much of the world’s people are about to die of starvation. (No one that I have spoken with in Louisville is aware of this or cares when informed.)
There are security concerns in Afghanistan – for example, there was an attempt to murder the president, Hamid Karzai (An ally of the U.S.A.)
Paraguay is the happiest country in the world right now. The people are filled with hope. They have a new President.
I met with my lawyer, yes, I have a new lawyer now. Her name is Amanda (same name as the secretary at John Helmer’s, my last lawyer.) I gave her the entire file from Helmers.
Then I went to pick up my children and found that Nancy and LL were there! And I said “Hello to Nancy three times and she ne never responded. When I went to speak with LL, Hannah came between us saying “Grammy told you to just ignore him.” LL tried to smirk it off but Hannah repeated the same sentence. I was unable to get any information from LL about anything like the dance recital (Ballet) or her closing on a house or Sofia’s art exhibition at the school (which was today.)
And as soon as the Lasky contingency as gone and us Lasky-Headricks were together life was sublime. First the children harassed Peter (my friend the elementary school art teacher,) and then we walked to the Asian Buffet. I asked them about Grammy telling LL to ignore me.
“Actually Grammy told me to ignore you too,” said Hannah.
“Are you going to ignore me now?” I asked Hannah.
“You are going to tell the judge that we said this!” exclaimed Sofia.
“No, I do not do that. I beg people to be nice and ask everyone to only say nice things,” was my response.
We ate heartily and then we walked to LL’s by way of “den Park mit den Hunden,” and the convenience store.
As we approached LL’s we came across Miles, a six year old friend of Hannah’s. He ran t LL’s with them, Miles’s mother and I followed suit and that made for a more extended exchange of the children for me. I was able to go inside LL’s house nad catch my children and kiss them on their heads. They pretend that they do not want this but I know that they love this.
LL put up with me but she did not say a word to me.
Hum? So today was a day like many others where the children were again inculcated with the understanding that I have been victimized by the Laskys. When is Nancy going to stop?
April 30, 2008
I tried to call my children a little after 7:00PM but no one answered the phone so today my children and I were not able to interact.